Sorry but I think then maybe you need to try and read and re-read that person 
Q b/c there might be like me Dyslexic or like you say not good at english. I 
my not having a go but thing like that make me think 2 times about wrtiing to 
groups like these


On Wednesday 05 Feb 2003 3:44 pm, Damian Gatabria wrote:
> > 1-you cant see the expressions on the persons face when they type.
>
> Before you start typing e-mails, you have to be completely aware that
> e-mail is a purely 'literal' form of communication. It sounds obvious, but
> the problems arrive when you make a joke or remark with a meaning that only
> makes sense/is understood correctly with a special tone of your voice, or
> with a particular look on your face. Most kinds of jokes do not work over
> e-mail.
>
> Hint: Re-read twice (or more) your message before you hit 'send', and try
> to pretend it is a message you received.
>
> > 2-everyone misunderstands you b/c you cant see how they express
> > themselves
>
> If unsure, ask people what they meant. Sometimes you are on the other side
> of the situation and end up getting angry --or feeling insulted-- by
> something that was meant to be a joke. Anyway, if the message you received
> is not clear, always ask again.
>
> > 3-you cant see the exaggeration the person gives while saying anything
>
> I'm not sure what you mean by exaggeration, but if you are referring to
> emphasis, most people like to use asterisks like *this*, or underscores,
> like _this_ to give their sentences the needed meaning. It works pretty
> well.
>
> There's another big problem with e-mail in this kind of lists (by 'this
> kind' i mean lists populated by people from different countries whose
> native language may not be english): Their knowledge of the english
> language is not excellent, and they make mistakes. But this would happen
> too if you were talking face-to-face with them, so please be patient.
>
> > 4-your just not in front of them
>
> Nothing beats face-to-face, huh? :o)
>
> > 5-most ppl think your a dumbass after send an email and you cant really
> > justify a saying or sentence correctly
>
> Well, this sounds like a problem with the writer not being able to
> express him/herself correctly, more than a problem with e-mail itself.
>
>
>
> Generally, when typing e-mail, it is a bad idea to use the words you
> would use if you were talking. It takes some time to get used to it,
> but it's really important especially if you are going to be read by people
> that are not familiar with your way to express things (i.e. they don't
> know you).
>
>
> Damian

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