Sent from my mobile device, please forgive errors and brevity. On Sep 30, 2011 8:24 PM, "Mathias Bauer" <[email protected]> wrote:
... > Looking for parts in each others posts that could be *interpreted* > negatively got more interest than praising the positive statements in > them. I have a very philantropic attitude, so I still believe that this > was caused by negative emotions of the past, not by malevolence. But > IMHO it's time to stop that and look forward, not backwards. > > Nobody is perfect - so people make mistakes. Sometimes also people have > to do things for reasons that are not their own (I know this well > enough!). If you want cooperation, you have to remember this and focus > on the positive sides that can help to establish or foster cooperation, > but not enhance the negative sides and blame people for them. Well said. Ross
