On Wed, 2012-05-09 at 13:01 -0400, Rob Weir wrote:
> On Wed, May 9, 2012 at 12:55 PM, Rory O'Farrell <[email protected]> wrote:
> > The important thing is to maintain a generosity towards others and not to 
> > be drawn into argument with them about the pros and cons of their/our 
> > choices.  The situation is likely to proceed to one of two directions: 
> > either the codebases and the features start to diverge dramatically, in 
> > which case they move away and any other product becomes sufficiently 
> > different that there need be no conflict, or there is some for of 
> > reconcilliation/amalgamation, in which case all have to work together, so 
> > the less aggravation that has arisen before that, the better.
> >
> > It is a generous thing to be able to agree to differ.
> >
> 
> But what about when their preference is that you don't exist at all?
> For example, when a LO leader comes onto the Apache list and says that
> he would like us to fail and that he wants to "put us out of our
> misery", then do we treat that as a mere "difference of opinion"?  I'm
> happy to be generous when it is a matter of taste, Coke versus Pepsi
> or whatever.  But when someone is denying our right to exist and
> taking active steps to cause our votes to fail, etc., then I think
> that is something else.
> 
> We're called on to be generous and professional.  We're not called on
> to be martyrs.

True - and you have made your point, IMO, a couple of times now -
regarding that piece of email. There are no martyrs here my friend.

//drew

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