The pilot-imposed oscillation as described in the proceedings ("Authority and 
Open Space) is an especially sweet piece of learning

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On Feb 2, 2014, at 9:58 PM, Caitlin Frost <[email protected]> wrote:

> Thanks for this great story.
> 
> As I read it I can relate to some beautiful hosting moments - and a few 'soul 
> frying' moments also, where I was not moving in a slow and deliberate way.  
> Like everything I find in hosting and living Open Space - it is simple, and 
> sometimes not so simple - especially when I forget the simplicity.
> 
> Caitlin.
> 
> 
> On Sun, Feb 2, 2014 at 1:52 PM, Derek W. Wade <[email protected]> wrote:
>> You all rock. If "learning is remembering something you already knew," then 
>> I'm delighted with the gift of learning I've received from this 
>> conversation. 
>> 
>> Back when I used to fly airplanes upside-down as a competitive sport, I 
>> received a simple, profound lesson that I now realize I can apply to Open 
>> Space. 
>> 
>>  I was having breakfast with my coach, world aerobatic champion Nikolay 
>> Timofeev. He was going to compete later that day in the "Unlimited" category 
>> -- something he had been doing for many years -- and I was going to fly my 
>> first competitive routine in the much less complicated "Sportsman" category. 
>> A pilot's first Sportsman flight is a milestone: its the one and only time 
>> in your aerobatic career to win a "best first time" award. I was nervous and 
>> concerned about time; gulping my coffee, obsessively looking over the plan 
>> of figures to be flown and judging criteria for each, checking and 
>> re-checking the timetable of the day.
>> 
>> I was nervous both because it was my first time flying at a more advanced 
>> level, and also because we had had a few bobbles the previous few days, 
>> including the canopy of the aircraft coming off in flight and falling to 
>> earth who-knew-where. So I would be flying open-cockpit, the wind in my face 
>> for the first time. A lot of unexpected firsts that were out of my control. 
>> 
>> Something compelled me to ask, "Nik, what's one piece of advice you can give 
>> me for this flight?" I was hoping for something about altitudes or airspeeds 
>> or specifics of the maneuvers to be flown. 
>> 
>>  Nikolay finished chewing his bite of toast, took a measured, deliberate sip 
>> of coffee, set his cup down carefully, laid both his hands palm-down on 
>> either side of his breakfast, and said, "before flight, you must do 
>> everything slow. Everything. You drink coffee, you do slow." He demonstrated 
>> with a careful lift of his cup. "You walk out to airplane, slow. Steady. 
>> Starter will be run around, get everyone in airplanes, go go go, now now 
>> now. You breathe. You put on parachute slow.  Get in airplane now -- but get 
>> in slow." He accentuated with smooth, meditative movements of his hands, as 
>> if doing tai chi at the breakfast table. "Touch airplane, feel it. Breathe. 
>> Slow. That is best thing for this flight. All flights."
>> 
>> It was a bit of a slap in the face -- what, I can't just have some pointers? 
>> Doesn't he realize how many things I'm dealing with here? But I did as he 
>> said. I left myself enough time that I could be deliberate and unhurried 
>> with all my preparation. The starter did indeed try to hustle me along when 
>> it was my turn to line up, but I smiled and yelled "thank you, got it" 
>> before I began buckling the chute on. 
>> 
>> It was SO hard. At every step I felt the need to check on something, to 
>> adjust some tiny little detail. But I did it. Slow and deliberate, just 
>> breathing with each motion. Paying total attention to one thing at a time. 
>> 
>> It was the best flight I ever flew. It felt like the airplane had turned 
>> transparent and I could see everything with 360-degree vision. At one point 
>> I was in the middle of a maneuver called a hammerhead turn -- a vertical up 
>> line until you run out of airspeed and then the engine's torque pivots the 
>> plane to point downward -- and saw that my path would take me into a cloud. 
>> Entering a cloud is illegal, and you're required to break off and restart 
>> your flight with no official penalty, but it can break up the judges' flow 
>> and result in lower marks.  Without thinking I pulled the propeller pitch 
>> back to act as a speedbrake  -- nothing I had ever been trained to do -- and 
>> completed that figure just under the cloud. 
>> 
>> Hours later I was still working out why it had worked, and why pulling the 
>> throttle would not have worked. I didn't feel like I had made the decision, 
>> I felt  like the plane and I both did it. It mattered: I received best 
>> first-time and best overall in category for that flight. 
>> 
>> Earlier in this thread, Harrison said:
>> "...coming to the circle scattered, confused and anxious is a good way to 
>> fry your soul and create an environment that matches your state."
>> 
>> And, David Osborne  wrote:
>> "Trust = the safety condition for self-organization."
>> 
>> So my lesson from you all is that whether the circle is drawn in the sky 
>> with an airplane, or drawn on the ground and made of people, its critical to 
>> treat that circle as a magic circle; to enter it with all awareness, calm, 
>> trust, and respect due a place of power. 
>> 
>> I thank you all for the insight. I'll remember that flight -- and Nik's 
>> lesson -- any time I attempt to Open Space. 
>> 
>> 
>>> 
>> 
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