Dear friends ~ Convergence always is a fascinating dynamic....
Usually, I simply listen, in this virtual community. However, for some time now I've been planning to share an invitation with you all...and now in response to Harrison, Birgitt's and Ashely's recent posts, it seems the time has arrived.... In light of recent event world events, Harrison, my son and I have come to the same conclusion that you and Birgitt have -- we're ready to open more space. And, Ashley, we're doing it here in Texas! So, for those of you are interested, we invite you to... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Join us in ... Opening Space for Peace: Imagining the Possibilities, Creating a New Reality http://peacespace.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We will be gathering here in San Antonio on Sunday, May 4, and, if you do not live near enough to be able to join us, please consider supporting our event by inviting others you know in Texas.... If you join our mailing list, we'll send you a sample invitation to share with others. And, if you let us know you're helping to spread the word: mailto:[email protected]?subject=Add_my_name ...we will be honored to include your name (along with a link to the URL of your preferred organization) on our list of acknowledgments: http://supporters.peacespace.com Harrison: please note -- we've included a link to your new book at the foot of our Questions page: http://faqs.peacespace.com Birgitt: Gary and Nathan and I would *love* to see you again if/when you come to Texas.... And, Ashley: where are you? It would be great to meet and share more.... This is a fertile time -- a good time now for all of us to tend our gardens, and plant more seeds.... With respect and appreciation, Metta Zetty http://open-space-technology.com ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Apr 2003 17:36:58 -0400 From: Harrison Owen <[email protected]> Subject: Re: Testing At 06:44 PM 4/24/2003 +0200, Eva P Svensson wrote: >So quiet - just have to test that I'm still connected to you all! The silence is in fact deafening. And particularly noticeable for this group. When silences come I find the reasons are usually three: a) Nothing to say. b) Nothing need be said. c) What could, or should, be said takes people to a place they don't want to go. I vote for c) The events of the past month are, indeed, a little overwhelming. The US invades Iraq, SARS breaks out. And now North Korea threatens to do a nuclear demonstration -- whatever that might mean. Sufficient to take your breath away. Forget about talking. And the prospects for the immediate future are hardly encouraging. Speaking just for myself, I can say that at such times, space becomes claustrophobically small. And my daily activities verge on the irrelevant. Silence. Very quiet. It is quite possible that we are really in the midst of very, very, deep doo-doo, from which there is no easy or obvious escape. Under the circumstances it is always nice to have somebody to beat on and blame. George the Shrub comes immediately to mind. But regardless of what he did do that he shouldn't have -- or didn't do and should have, the situation is probably well beyond him. From where I sit, he remains what he has always been -- an embarrassment. As Birgitt might be tempted to say -- We have a lot of Dead Moose. And yet in such moments, there is the possibility of enormous learning. For ourselves, how do we open our personal space so that in this present moment we can be fully here -- fully alive? And for our neighbors, colleagues, clients and friends, how can we open that communal space so breath (and meaningful conversation) becomes a possibility? Opening this sort of space is rather different, I think, from filling the air with trite platitudes and the power of positive thinking. It goes to a deeper place. Slightly less than a year ago, I was privileged to work with a group of Palestinians and Israelis in Rome. Relatively speaking, the world at that point (compared to the present moment) seemed almost idyllic -- but for those coming from The Middle East it appeared something other than a rose garden. And in their presence, I could only share something of the brittle fatalism reflected in the forced smiles, and nervous laughter with which we began our gathering. Knowing full well that I could never be fully where they were, I nevertheless felt compelled to share my own vulnerability -- In my opening of the circle on that first day I said something like..."I had come because I cared for my friends in Palestine and Israel, and also for myself and my children. And although the people in that circle may feel themselves isolated and alone in their own private Hell with their own agonizing story, that story was also the story of our world. Like it or not they were in the hot crucible of the future of humankind. The future of all of us is being created in that strange place known as the Holy Land, even as it has been for millennia. So I cared, but I was also on the edge of despair or beyond. I could not think of any way out. The issues were so deep and intractable that movement appeared denied. Space was closed. But still I came, and still I cared as I presumed was true for each of them as well." My learning during those days in Rome was profound. It became startling clear that neither I, nor any single person there, had the wisdom, courage, strength or perseverance to get us where we needed to go. But none of us were called upon to do that -- we all were -- and all rose to the challenge. In that rich space which contained all of our hopes, fears, frustrations and anxieties, we collectively found a collegiality which included and transcended them all. Needless to say, we did not bring peace to The Middle East, but we surely experienced peace in that moment. And that was a moment we will never forget. So maybe it is time to break our silence here on good old OSLIST -- share what we are, and what we are learning. Harrison Harrison Owen 7808 River Falls Drive Potomac, MD 20854 USA phone 301-365-2093 Open Space Training www.openspaceworld.com Open Space Institute www.openspaceworld.org Personal website http://mywebpages.comcast.net/hhowen/index.htm ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Apr 2003 20:29:16 -0400 From: Birgitt Williams <[email protected]> Subject: Re: Testing Harrison, You are right that I agree that there are a lot of Dead Moose under the table. For those of you who don't know about the Dead Moose and its relationship to Open Space Technology, please see the invitation at http://www.openspacetechnology.com/articles_11.html I suggest adding another reason to the three you mention regarding silence and that is d) busy holding space. I vote for d). I believe in the power of Open Space and what we know from our many years of experience with Open Space Technology. The facilitator must not be attached to outcome (and not to be shaken by events, even conflict as it happens---I remember from working with you at the First Canada US Breast Cancer Advocacy Conference what it was like to hold space in the face of huge conflict---a microcosm of what we experience in the world). And so, hundreds of us around the world are facilitating the "holding of space for opportunities for harmony in the world". I stay focused on this, on who I am as a being of light in the world, and I retain my balance no matter what the events are. I see and experience myself as one of the co-facilitators of "holding space" that we opened on Sept 21st of 2001. Anyone who cares to join us in the co-facilitation of what is the biggest "space holding" experience may join at any time to assist those already committed. And because we are co-facilitating, even if one or more of us is having a "down" day, we know that others are holding the space and so it is like a magnet to energize oneself again through meditation and prayer and being in nature, as we would do for facilitating an OST meeting, and to rejoin the others. I see and experience many many events and projects to foster harmony and I am convinced that we are having an effect. Can I prove it? No. Do I believe it? Yes. So, Harrison, you got me started on this journey of learning to open and hold space for which I continue to be deeply grateful. And now, we are simply called to hold space for humanity using all the skills and capacity that we have developed over the years. For anyone who cares to join us in what we have called the Harmony Project, information is at http://www.openspacetechnology.com/harmony.html In the picture on that page, you will see a circle of stones that symbolizes our holding of space (and remember that as facilitators we cannot be attached to outcome). Within that stone circle, there are "seed stones" that I am willing to send out to those who request them and want to use them to start a circle in their own location. There are hundreds of such symbolic circles in the world now, and we visualize them as all connected, weaving this opportunity around the globe. Of course, there are some who have chosen to carry their seed stones in their pockets and to be connected in that way. I get great comfort from taking action in this way with my state of being joined with others. And it gives me great hope. The good news is that Open Space always works. Blessings, Birgitt ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Apr 2003 21:31:00 -0700 From: Ashley Cooper <[email protected]> Subject: Silence Awhile back some of Joelle's words were added to my wall of quotes (tucked in between two New Yorker cartoons of people gathered and talking) "Hold space for others to have the conversations they are longing for." I see the theme again with Harrison's words: And for our neighbors, colleagues, clients and friends, how can we open that communal space so breath (and meaningful conversation) becomes a possibility? Where I am experiencing unrest is that it is my perception that many people do not want to have these conversations. that the silence is so much easier with which to "deal". i so often feel like i am walking on eggshells just to ensure that i don't upset another's day by communicating/ discussing matters in which different perspectives/perceptions are present. on the flip side, i feel like "things" are very stimulated right now. change brings about incredible opportunities. i sense this great passion, void, feeling (...i haven't figured out what word to use!) that has been buried deep within many, surfacing. it's invigorating how many are embracing this opportunity to communicate, to drive passion into action, to find motivation in this time, to hold the space. unfortunately in my life, i more frequently feel many being stifled with confusion and avoidance. I hear many venting (including myself) of the difficulties in their lives, how suddenly things seem to be moving so fast. i can't help but to think that while situations are occurring in daily life that could cause such anxiety, uncertainty... that we are also susceptible to a greater mood that prevails...during this silence. i am always drawn towards trying to learn the appropriate language to speak to another. attempting to find the words, the sentence structure, the visual images which both myself and another are capable of understanding. presently, i am amazed at how often i find myself sitting back, watching, and listening...and yet there is so much bubbling inside. i am just trying to find a meaningful way to share. one last thought: i am also living in a new place. i often wonder if my observations are specific to this region in texas or similar realities exist all over this beautiful earth we inhabit. thanks for reading my ponderings! with love, ashley cooper * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected], Visit: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html
