At 07:11 AM 5/10/2003 -0400, you wrote:
why talking --? why not listening to the words of people, folks, client --? learning their language
I sort of feel like I have fallen into the middle of a conversation -- not having a clue what Birgitt said that started all this -- but no matter. I think the conversation is good and useful. The thing about listening is that a response is required, I think. So talking and listening go together. I can't agree more that we should listen attentively to the words that the folks use before jumping in with the "correct" words, no matter how we may define correctness. And then there is the response, and if it is to be a good response, it must come from our authentic selves -- not some self that we create for the occasion. Now, how about that word "Spirit"? Since I have begun two of my several books with the announcement, "This book is about Spirit and the ways Spirit forms and transforms in organizations..." I can scarcely be accused of being a blushing violet when it comes to the S word. I have been told that I have been very brave/crazy (take your pick) to talk this way, particularly when my intended audience was businesses and such. But somehow it never really felt that way. After all Spirit is a word we use all the time, as in "inspired." And who would ever bother to go and see a football game (US or World) where the teams had no Spirit??? I think it may be more about how you say it than what you say. If you get all weird and secretive -- whispering Spirit -- folks do get a little off-put. On the other hand if you just stand up and say it -- Let's get some Spirit in this place! -- No problem. Or at least I've never had any problem. So for me -- I just treat Spirit as the most important thing. What else? And besides, how on earth would you ever talk about an Open Space without using the word Spirit in some form or another? It beggars my imagination. Harrison
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