Raffi, John-- I think that in our culture, we often downplay the value of just being with someone without trying to do something. The fact that you choose to be with them, and bring your full presence and attention, conveys a message that they are of value. The fact that you listen with acceptance validates their experience and thoughts/feelings. The fact that you let them choose their path and their pace is a way of honoring their wisdom and resources.
This feels to me like incredibly valuable work! Thank you both. Joelle * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected], Visit: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html
