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----- Original Message -----
From: "Harrison Owen" <[email protected]>
To: "Malcolm Best" <[email protected]>
Sent: Tuesday, July 13, 2004 6:15 PM
Subject: Re: What could be left out |


> Malcolm Wrote: What are the key activities and non-activities that I can
> engage in to facilitate
> emergence of a higher order of creativity in a group?
>
> If we take the common experience in Open Space as our guide -- then the
> answer to your (very good!) question might be -- Provide focus (presence),
> direction in the sense of suggesting a way forward, but not giving the
> detailed steps -- and plenty of space (psychological, mental, and even
> physical) for the group to move around in. And if you were to combine
these
> thoughts with the parting shot  from Zelle about an "invitation" offered
> repetatively -- we really might have something. When I think back on the
> times when the time was short, and the stakes were high -- and a Leader
> steped forward, he/she never appeared with "the plan" -- but rather with
an
> invitation, presence, direction, and lots of space to work things out in.
I
> guess I would add: Continuing Presence. This was not a one time shot, see
> you in the mroning sort of thing -- but a real presence. I (he/she) am
> there. With you. All the way.
>
> Harrison
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Malcolm Best" <[email protected]>
> To: <[email protected]>
> Sent: Tuesday, July 13, 2004 11:30 AM
> Subject: What could be left out |
>
>
> > I am intrigued by the question about what could be left out.
> >
> > Lately I am coming to believe that our "salvation" and a path to
> sustainable
> > living in the world will come from the emergent properties, including
> > intelligence and collaborative learning, in certain kinds of groups.  My
> > avid interest is to discover what allows a group, at a particular time
and
> > in a particular context, to self organize and exhibit intelligence much
> > higher than any member, while other groups turn into dumb mobs.  What
are
> > the key activities and non-activities that I can engage in to facilitate
> > emergence of a higher order of creativity in a group?
> >
> > Kevin Kelly ("Out of Control") listed 4 characteristics of what he
called
> > "swarm systems":
> >
> > The absence of imposed centralized control
> > The autonomous nature of subunits
> > The high connectivity between subunits
> > The webby nonlinear causality of peers influencing peers
> >
> > This last one relates to 'Whatever happens is the only thing that
> could." -
> > permission to influence and be influenced because there's no way of
> avoiding
> > that anyway.
> >
> > Howard Rheingold ("Smart Mobs") quotes Michael Suk-Young Chwe on public
> > rituals (like an Open Space opening):' "Public rituals are social
> practices
> > that generate common knowledge", which enables groups to solve
> coordination
> > problems'.
> >
> > Instinctive (as in "selected for during evolution") drives that hold
> > individuals back or channel them into irrelevant noise, dumb groups
down.
> > For example when I ask myself "when should I contribute?" (status,
> > reputation, credibility), "who is free riding?" (it's all a free ride),
> and
> > "should that be sanctioned?" (two feet) - these are settled with maximum
> > trust and minimum friction in the Open Space framework.
> >
> > Thanks to everyone for marvelous writings in this list.
> > Malcolm  Best
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "Automatic digest processor" <[email protected]>
> > To: "Recipients of OSLIST digests" <[email protected]>
> > Sent: Monday, July 12, 2004 11:00 PM
> > Subject: OSLIST Digest - 11 Jul 2004 to 12 Jul 2004 (#2004-188)
> >
> >
> > > There are 3 messages totalling 782 lines in this issue.
> > >
> > > Topics of the day:
> > >
> > >   1. OSLIST Digest - 10 Jul 2004 to 11 Jul 2004 (#2004-187) (2)
> > >   2. the dark side of circle practices -- and related themes
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Date:    Mon, 12 Jul 2004 15:15:44 +0200
> > > From:    "Pannwitz, Michael M" <[email protected]>
> > > Subject: Re: OSLIST Digest - 10 Jul 2004 to 11 Jul 2004 (#2004-187)
> > >
> > > Dear Ralph,
> > > how do you usually explain it?
> > > (one part in my explanation is to quote a couple of old German
> > > sayings, one of which translates to: If the dog would not have taken
> > > a shit he would have caught the rabbit...German: Wenn der Hund nicht
> > > geschissen hätte, hät er den Has gefangen)
> > > (The other one goes "Wenn das Wörtchen wenn nicht wär, wär mein Vater
> > > Millionär" which roughly goes like. If it were not for the word if my
> > > father would be rich)
> > >
> > > You can easily see that I would certainly not leave this one off
> > > because there is usually a boistrous chuckle...
> > >
> > > As far as Harrisson losing his mind is concerned: there is definitely
> > > space in open space for losing your mind (or other things)...in the
> > > most recent os I facilitated just a week ago under the heading of
> > > "Adventure growing old...and that in a foreign homeland" one issue
> > > was "Be crazy" which definitely drew the largest crowd.
> > > Greetings from Berlin
> > > mmp
> > >
> > > On Mon, 12 Jul 2004 08:54:54 -0400, Ralph Copleman wrote:
> > >
> > > >So, what can we do without?
> > > >
> > > >I've been thinking maybe next time I'll leave out ,"Whatever happens
is
> > the
> > > >only thing that could."
> > > >
> > > >Not because it isn't true, but because I have never explained it in a
> way
> > I
> > > >myself clearly understand.  We're talking maybe 200 times here - and
I
> > never
> > > >seem to nail it.  (On the other hand, nobody ever asks me to explain
it
> > > >further, so maybe I do nail it.)
> > > >
> > > >Or maybe I'll post it on the wall with the other three, as I always
do,
> > and
> > > >then not mention any of them specifically - just say there's a list
of
> > > >guidelines one can use if one wishes.
> > > >
> > > >I don't know.  What do you think?
> > > >
> > > >And Harrison, yes, you've definitely lost your mind.  But please
don't
> go
> > > >looking for it.
> > > >
> > > >Ralph Copleman
> > > >
> > > >*
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Michael M Pannwitz
> > > boscop
> > > Draisweg 1
> > > 12209 Berlin, Germany
> > > FON +49 - 30-772 8000     FAX +49 - 30-773 92 464
> > >
> > > Informationen zu open space und future search:
> > > www.michaelmpannwitz.de
> > >
> > > 123 Berliner open space-Veranstaltungen von 12 BegleiterInnen in 16
> > verschiedenen Bereichen:
> > > www.openspace-landschaft.de
> > >
> > > An der E-Gruppe "openspacedeutsch" interessiert? Enfach eine mail an
> mich.
> > >
> > > *
> > > *
> > > ==========================================================
> > >
> > > Date:    Mon, 12 Jul 2004 18:25:41 -0400
> > > From:    Zelle Nelson <[email protected]>
> > > Subject: Re: the dark side of circle practices -- and related themes
> > >
> > >
> > > some thoughts on our role as facilitator...
> > >
> > > Harrison Owen wrote:
> > >
> > > >...And what about all those other great experiments -- Dialogue,
> > Appreciative
> > > >Inquiry, Community Building, and I suppose "Circle practices"
(although
> I
> > am
> > > >not quite sure what they are)? Speaking just for my self -- I must
say
> > that
> > > >each of these have been profound teachers. From the practitioners of
> > > >Dialogue I have learned what intense and productive communication can
> be
> > > >like. From Appreciative Inquiry I have learned the incredible power
of
> a
> > > >positive, appreciate approach to my fellow human beings. And from
Scott
> > Peck
> > > >and Co. I have learned much about the nature and function of
effective
> > human
> > > >community. Each of these has opened my eyes, sharpened my attention,
> and
> > > >raised my expectations in terms of what and how we can function at
> > optimal
> > > >levels both individually and collectively. But my deepest learning
> occurs
> > > >when with open sharpened,  eyes I see exactly the same things
happening
> > in
> > > >Open Space -- all by themselves, and all without the overt
intervention
> > of
> > > >some prescribed, facilitated process. I find my emerging conclusion
to
> be
> > > >basically mind-blowing -- although some may take it to mean that I
have
> > > >blown (lost) my mind. It seems to me that genuine dialogue, deep
> > > >appreciation of difference, and the manifestation of real community
are
> > all
> > > >the natural concomitants of any fully functional self-organizing
> system.
> > If
> > > >this is true, the real focus should be on enabling/allowing the
> > > >self-organizing system (which we all are) to do what it alone can
do --
> > > >rather than trying to "fix" apparent and real problems encountered
> along
> > the
> > > >way with special interventions and added processes, as fascinating as
> > those
> > > >processes and interventions might be. As I said, Don't fix it if it
> ain't
> > > >broke -- just make sure that "it" (good old self organizing system)
has
> > > >plenty of time and space in which to breath.
> > > >
> > > >Harrison
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > Zelle writes:
> > >
> > > I'm oscillating between two prime pillars: 1) Learning and adopting
> > > tools (Appreciative Inquiry, Dialog, etc.) to help us interact
> > > ultimately in a state of grace*** 2) Living, being, experiencing as
our
> > > path to learning and as a way of life.
> > >
> > > ***sidebar*** Living in a State of Grace means coming from a place
where
> > > peace is our ultimate goal in any relationship rather than striving to
> > > keep the status quo of a relationship at any cost. When we hold onto
our
> > > idea of a relationship at any cost we are coming from a place of
fear -
> > > fear of loss, fear of pain - Living in a State of Grace does not mean
we
> > > hold the relationship as a sacred cow, but rather we hold the people
> > > involved as sacred. I never want to see you walking down the street
and
> > > feel I need to cross over to the other side to avoid talking to you,
> > > whether we agree on certain issues or not. To learn more about how to
> > > more fully live in a State of Grace visit
> www.stateofgracedocument.com***
> > >
> > > The way of being I hold is a paradox. In Open Space I can use the
tools
> > > I've learned towards better relationships with others and myself. And
I
> > > can practice being in Open Space, living as the waves and tides of my
> > > internal and external world compel me to move, act, speak, listen, and
> > > be. I seek to live by the principles of Open Space, since I see the
act
> > > of formally opening space as an acknowledgment of what is already out
> > > there to be lived. I need neither skills nor advanced training to take
> > > responsibility for myself and my passions, yet in my experience, I
more
> > > richly engage in bountiful relationships when I utilize skills and
tools
> > > which I have been taught or have created to facilitate living the
> > > reality of responsibility and passion.
> > >
> > > To address what Harrison wrote:
> > >
> > > "It seems to me that genuine dialogue, deep
> > > appreciation of difference, and the manifestation of real community
are
> > all
> > > the natural concomitants of any fully functional self-organizing
system.
> > If
> > > this is true, the real focus should be on enabling/allowing the
> > > self-organizing system (which we all are) to do what it alone can
do --
> > > rather than trying to "fix" apparent and real problems encountered
along
> > the
> > > way with special interventions and added processes, as fascinating as
> > those
> > > processes and interventions might be."
> > >
> > > Having learned many skills and tools which enable me to better know
how
> > > I wish to be in relationship with others has greatly enhanced my
ability
> > > to act and move within a "formally" - being in circle, stating the law
> > > and principles, creating a marketplace of ideas - opened space. I am
> > > more "fully functional" within a "self-organizing system" because of
the
> > > tools I have learned. Leaving space open for others to learn
techniques
> > > within the bounds of a "formally" opened space, in my experience, can
be
> > > beneficial. Our challenge as facilitators of Open Space is to know
when
> > > to hold um and know when to fold um - know when to offer aid in
> > > facilitating dynamically changing relationships and when to simply
hold
> > > space for each individual to find their own way and their own
learning.
> > > As I've seen from posts here and heard from discussions with
colleagues
> > > the ultimate path to knowing when to do what comes full circle back to
> > > following our passion and our responsibility on an individual basis as
> > > spirit arises.
> > >
> > > When "formally" holding space I like to provide opportunities for
topics
> > > to be posted relevant to facilitating the resolution of the questions
> > > addressed in the invitation, including opportunities for learning
tools
> > > and processes that foster fruitful relationships. These opportunities
> > > must, in my opinion be as voluntary as the other topics which arise.
> > > Often these opportunities are offered outside of the "formally" opened
> > > space and are not a prerequisite of being involved in an Open Space
> event.
> > >
> > > In my experience once I "formally" open space I rarely do anything but
> > > hold space and try to bounce back any attempts to bring me in to
> > > facilitate a discussion, by saying something like, "This part of the
> > > meeting is yours. You have the ability and the responsibility to
follow
> > > your own two feet and solve problems and challenges on your own."
> > > Outside of "formally" opened space I tend to still stay out of trying
to
> > > "teach" something that I "know" unless I am invited to do so.
> > >
> > > In my experience tools and skills which help us to be more fully
present
> > > in dynamic relationships (Appreciative Inquiry, Dialogue, State of
Grace
> > > Documents, Byron Katie's Loving What Is) focus on
> > >
> > > "enabling/allowing the self-organizing system (which we all are) to do
> > what it alone can do"
> > >
> > > Do we need these tools to be and self-organize into active,
responsible,
> > > passionate bodies? - No. Do these tools enable and allow self
organizing
> > > systems to be more fulfilling, fruitful, and rewarding? - In my
> > > experience, Yes. As long as these tools and skills are not "required"
as
> > > a ticket for admission into a seemingly open space.
> > >
> > > With Grace and Love,
> > >
> > > Zelle
> > >
> > > ************
> > > Zelle Nelson
> > > Engaging the Soul at Work/Know Place Like Home/State of Grace Document
> > >
> > > www.stateofgracedocument.com
> > >
> > > [email protected]
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> > >
> > > >----- Original Message -----
> > > >From: "Artur Silva" <[email protected]>
> > > >To: <[email protected]>
> > > >Sent: Friday, July 09, 2004 1:00 PM
> > > >Subject: Re: the dark side of circle practices
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >>--- chris macrae <[email protected]> wrote:
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>The process starts erring to absolute democracy of
> > > >>>everyone must have
> > > >>>equal time contributions to speak at each phase
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>(...) In other
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>word's the circle's communal harmony ... can
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>co-create such
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>>deep love of nice
> > > >>>behaviours to each other that it misses the biggest
> > > >>>spiral out above our
> > > >>>communal thinking's common denominator
> > > >>>
> > > >>>
> > > >>That's interesting, Chris.
> > > >>
> > > >>I have been, at times, in situations like that one -
> > > >>circles (or squares) where everyone must "be in
> > > >>place", must "speak in his turn" and must have a "nice
> > > >>behavior".
> > > >>
> > > >>They call this democratic, but in fact it is a
> > > >>dictatorship. In a democracy I can stay silent if I
> > > >>want. When everyone is obliged to speak that is not
> > > >>democratic. This can be a "rules' dictatorship"
> > > >>(created by the rules previously defined,) a "leader's
> > > >>dictatorship" (the leader(s) imposes that everyone
> > > >>must speak), or even a more interesting type - a
> > > >>"majority's dictatorship" (where the rule is created
> > > >>at the moment by the majority).
> > > >>
> > > >>Apart from claiming to be democratic, this type of
> > > >>groups/sessions also claim that they are following
> > > >>"good principles". The two I have heard more often are
> > > >>"appreciation" (like in "appreciative inquiry") and
> > > >>"dialog".
> > > >>
> > > >>Democracy (and Open Space) are made of dialogs AND of
> > > >>discussions. If one suppresses discussion and impose
> > > >>dialog (as in "everyone must be nice to each other and
> > > >>hear the other with appreciation") then there is no
> > > >>democracy and no open space, I think.
> > > >>
> > > >>Apart from the fact that there are some people that I
> > > >>don't want to hear with appreciation (say, Bush, to
> > > >>give only one example) the point is even more strange.
> > > >>"Playing the appreciative game" (an expression I have
> > > >>created just know) is only one form of "playing games"
> > > >>- and that is the essence of Argyris and Schon's Model
> > > >>1.
> > > >>
> > > >>If, in a meeting or organization, one imposes dialog
> > > >>and appreciation, then a close session or organization
> > > >>will come to place.
> > > >>
> > > >>Artur
> > > >>
> > > >>PS: I never heard to call this "circle" and even less
> > > >>Open Space. But I would not be too surprised if some
> > > >>would call that. I have already referred to a
> > > >>respectable group of practitioners of "Communities of
> > > >>Practice", USA based, that not long ago claimed that
> > > >>they had used "Open Space" (OST) in a meeting because:
> > > >>
> > > >>- they assembled in a circle
> > > >>- they gave participants the opportunity to ADD issues
> > > >>to a large group of issues pre-prepared by the
> > > >>organizers
> > > >>- they divided the large group in small groups to
> > > >>discuss those issues (by choice of the organizers, if
> > > >>I recall well - but I recall well that there was no
> > > >>reference to "the law" - people were not expected to
> > > >>leave their group! That would not be considered
> > > >>"appreciative" to the other group members, I
> > > >>suspect...)
> > > >>
> > > >>But don't worry about what some people do "in your
> > > >>name", Harrison. You can always remember what some
> > > >>have done (and are doing) in His name. And at least
> > > >>about you I know that you exists - something I am not
> > > >>prepared to say about the Other...
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
> > > >>
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> > >
> > > *
> > >                  some thoughts on our role as facilitator...<br>
> > >   <br>
> > >   Harrison Owen wrote:<br>
> > >
> > > <blockquote type="cite"
> > >  cite="mid001401c4667b$af6f3d10$dc7dfea9@holaptop">
> > >   <pre wrap="">...And what about all those other great experiments --
> > Dialogue, Appreciative
> > > Inquiry, Community Building, and I suppose "Circle practices"
(although
> I
> > am
> > > not quite sure what they are)? Speaking just for my self -- I must say
> > that
> > > each of these have been profound teachers. From the practitioners of
> > > Dialogue I have learned what intense and productive communication can
be
> > > like. From Appreciative Inquiry I have learned the incredible power of
a
> > > positive, appreciate approach to my fellow human beings. And from
Scott
> > Peck
> > > and Co. I have learned much about the nature and function of effective
> > human
> > > community. Each of these has opened my eyes, sharpened my attention,
and
> > > raised my expectations in terms of what and how we can function at
> optimal
> > > levels both individually and collectively. But my deepest learning
> occurs
> > > when with open sharpened,  eyes I see exactly the same things
happening
> in
> > > Open Space -- all by themselves, and all without the overt
intervention
> of
> > > some prescribed, facilitated process. I find my emerging conclusion to
> be
> > > basically mind-blowing -- although some may take it to mean that I
have
> > > blown (lost) my mind. It seems to me that genuine dialogue, deep
> > > appreciation of difference, and the manifestation of real community
are
> > all
> > > the natural concomitants of any fully functional self-organizing
system.
> > If
> > > this is true, the real focus should be on enabling/allowing the
> > > self-organizing system (which we all are) to do what it alone can
do --
> > > rather than trying to "fix" apparent and real problems encountered
along
> > the
> > > way with special interventions and added processes, as fascinating as
> > those
> > > processes and interventions might be. As I said, Don't fix it if it
> ain't
> > > broke -- just make sure that "it" (good old self organizing system)
has
> > > plenty of time and space in which to breath.
> > >
> > > Harrison
> > >
> > >
> >
> > *
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