Hi All,

Time to stop lurking, I guess. ;-)

When the purpose of a gathering (or that part of a gathering) is to explore ideas more than it is to make decisions, I create an additional flip chart poster with four continua. As I open space (notice the lower case) for groups, I extend the invitation to focus on:
- inquiry rather than advocacy
- discussion rather than debate
- conversation rather than argument
- understanding rather than defending

Participants have come to me to say that it helped them for me to make this distinction in the kinds of possible discourse. They hadn't thought about the fact that they had options to choose from when they interacted on topics about which they felt passion.

Peace!
Diana

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On Sep 29, 2005, at 9:29 AM, Harrison Owen wrote:

Very good point! I have just been invited to facilitate a gathering of 200
Rabbis and Imams from around the world -- on the question "Issues and
Opportunities for enabling peace between Jews and Muslims" (At least I think
that is the question). And that nasty word "debate" came up in our
discussions of how to write the invitation. I can certainly understand how it jumps up -- given everybody's history. But it really is a bummer. We do need to think of some alternatives. "Engaged Conversation" might head in a
more fruitful direction. And other possibilities would be wonderful.

Harrison

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