Thanks Lisa, Joelle and Funda, By the way, one point I forgot to mention on my blog (I'll have to go back and add it), is that I had the paper and markers in the middle of the circle before the abrupt shift in plans, and the Law and Principles on the wall.
Near the end, someone who han't been at the previous meeting when we had the Principles up and explained asked me about them. I answered that it wasn't the time to talk about them because I couldn't think of any way to talk about them without bringing up the abrupt change in plans, and that just didn't feel right to me. I just wasn't up for any sort of confrontation. Oh well, whatever happens is the only thing that could have. :-) peace, ted On 3/21/06, Funda Oral <fundao...@ttnet.net.tr> wrote: > "What do you do when the > sponsor wants to back out at the last minute?" > > kill him/her ::)) > > or > > say to myself that " whatever has happened was the only thing that could > have" > > and "she/he has good reasons to do that whether i understand or not > whether i accept or not" > > and > > i turn my back and i move to another direction > and i am curious to see what happens next. > > ok i accept that it's not that easy, but i try to do that about anything > that doesn't happen as i expected. > > regards, > Funda > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Ted Ernst" <t...@chicagohumanist.org> > To: <osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu> > Sent: Wednesday, March 22, 2006 5:51 AM > Subject: my work of tonight > > > >I think I've written a bit here before about holding space for a > > Tantra community. Tonight was the 3rd such meeting and the principal > > didn't want to use open space again. I learned this less than 5 > > minutes before the scheduled opening time. I've very conflicted > > inside. I've written a long account of the evening on my blog for > > anyone that cares to delve deeper: http://tedernst.com/wp/?p=377 > > > > Maybe a more general question to ask would be "What do you do when the > > sponsor wants to back out at the last minute?" > > > > peace, > > ted > > > > -- > > Humanize the Earth! http://tedernst.com > > Open more space! http://www.openspaceworld.org > > Chicago event July 14-16: http://moreandmore.us/ > > skype: TedErnst > > google talk/jabber: teder...@gmail.com > > > > * > > * > > ========================================================== > > osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu > > ------------------------------ > > To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, > > view the archives of osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu: > > http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html > > > > To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: > > http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist > > * > * > ========================================================== > osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu > ------------------------------ > To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, > view the archives of osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu: > http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html > > To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: > http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist > -- Humanize the Earth! http://tedernst.com Open more space! http://www.openspaceworld.org Chicago event July 14-16: http://moreandmore.us/ skype: TedErnst google talk/jabber: teder...@gmail.com * * ========================================================== osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist
