Filiz, Thanks for posing this question. I'm already looking forward to seeing what other's have to say about it. Here are my thoughts.
You asked: Is it possible for a facilitator to carry certain position and emotions on a certain issue and still open space on that issue? I've thought about this often, since I decided it would be important for me to know the answer, just in case I would be asked. However, I haven't been in the position, so I don't have an actual example and unfortunately, my "what if" thinking hasn't lead me to a very clear answer either. What I have determined for myself is that there are at least three aspects to this. First a determination as to what exactly I despise/which specific values of that particular group I don't share. Second, what the invitation/purpose of the Open Space would be and how that fits with my values. And three, how the answers to those questions limit my ability to stay grounded to truly hold the space. For example, if the National Association for the Re-Introduction of Slavery were to ask for my services, I know that I would NOT be grounded, non-judgmental, open enough to do it for that kind of an organization. Not that I couldn't "do the opening", I just couldn't be open. In fairness to them and me, I would have to say no. Then again, there are situations where my personal belief in the power of Open Space, to truly open space i.e. open room for new perspectives, a sort of radical re-alignment of the perception of what is reality, would ground me enough to be able to do it. I know that in thinking about the specific circumstances my intuition about what to do would come through. So to answer this question, I think it's a personal exploration. Is it ethical? Ethical in what way? Is it ethical to "hire yourself out" to an organization whose mission you don't approve of yet you might actually help to achieve better? Well, I wouldn't do it, but then again one could argue that OS can be pretty magical and some folks just might discover that their mission needs to be more enlightened. Is it ethical to take their money even though you think they do "bad things"? Again, I wouldn't do it but - see above. However, if I did, my bias would be to stay on the "more disclosure is better" side of things to make sure they know what I do think. Best - Claudia Claudia Haack KAIROS Alliance, Inc. 608.288.8315 www.kairosalliance.com -----Original Message----- From: OSLIST [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of filiz Sent: Monday, October 16, 2006 5:09 AM To: [email protected] Subject: opening space with despise I know that is a weird subject line. This is the question I have today: Have you ever hosted an open space with a group/organization that you despise? If despise is too strong of a word, how about disapprove or dislike? Is it ethical? Is it possible for a facilitator to carry certain position and emotions on a certain issue and still open space on that issue? Can you share your experiences? Thank you! * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected]: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected]: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html To learn about OpenSpaceEmailLists and OSLIST FAQs: http://www.openspaceworld.org/oslist
