Having said all of the above, Alan I think your approach is fabulous!

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On Dec 19, 2015 8:24 AM, "Barry Owen" <[email protected]> wrote:

> For me, the more I think about it which I have now for 30 years, I think
> it is all the same and it is all open space as long as... It begins with
> true passion / heart and the taking responsibility for that passion through
> invitation to others who share it. Perhaps this is egregious over
> simplification, but it's what works in my mind today. I used to get upset
> when I saw people do something that didn't match with my understanding of
> open space and called it open space. That no longer bothers me because now
> I know that as God continues to say and has always said its all open space.
> For me the technical parts of it are just framing structure which I call
> training wheels to help people who have been unlearned from the natural
> course of human interaction and self-organized solution oriented
> communication. In a sense, a tool, as it were, to help the participants
> remember their own personal power such that they can acknowledge their true
> passions and take responsibility through the action of invitation.
>
> As I am currently walking my dogs on a 24 degree Fahrenheit morning
> speaking voice to text into a smartphone, this email may make zero sense to
> anyone. But it is what's in my head right now :-)
>
> This message has been sent from my mobile device and therefore may be
> somewhat wonky.
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> Nashville, TN 37215
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> On Dec 19, 2015 8:13 AM, "Harrison Owen via OSList" <
> [email protected]> wrote:
>
>> Alan.... I hate to tell you, but you are only 13.7 (I think it is now
>> .8?) billion years late. It’s been Open Space since the beginning began.
>> We’ve just been a little slow to recognize it. OST provides absolutely
>> nothing new. Just an essentially brain dead way to ease ourselves into what
>> we naturally do anyhow. Some people even pay us to do all that! But you are
>> absolutely correct: “Opening Space Matters.” Living in a closed space make
>> claustrophobia seem like paradise, or so I’ve found.
>>
>>
>>
>> Harrison
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>> *From:* OSList [mailto:[email protected]] *On
>> Behalf Of *Alan Stewart via OSList
>> *Sent:* Saturday, December 19, 2015 2:08 AM
>> *To:* World wide Open Space Technology email list; The Art of Hosting
>> *Subject:* [OSList] Opening space matters
>>
>>
>>
>> G’day All
>>
>>
>>
>> Here’s something for you to ponder over during the Festive Season.
>> <smile>
>>
>>
>>
>> *Can we open space without the format of Open Space Technology? *
>>
>>
>>
>> Here’s where my question arises:
>>
>>
>>
>> When living in Hong Kong for six happy years until 2011 I invented a
>> novel form of socialising which I called *Conversare* from the Latin *con
>> versare – to turn or to dance together. *See The purpose of *Conversare *
>> <http://conversare.net/?page_id=1957>and here
>> <http://conversare.net/?page_id=2002> for what it is and what it is not.
>>
>>
>>
>> This is now being conducted in what may well be regarded as a 'right
>> place’ -  the  Adelaide Central Market
>> <http://us6.forward-to-friend.com/forward/show?u=d2a5886c33ebf0bb6486eeb16&id=8b30b0cef0>
>> and here
>> <http://www.southaustralia.com/en/things-to-do/ideas-and-suggestions/markets>
>> .
>>
>>
>>
>> With regard to my question I recently took the opportunity to consult
>> with a group of Spaceniks (Raffi’s term!) on their perspectives, expressing
>> it in this way:
>>
>>
>>
>> *Is Conversare a variety of Open Space?*
>>
>>
>>
>> Which, in turn, arose in relation to two issues which I had recently
>> noticed on the OSList:
>>
>>
>>
>> . Open Space wherever, however, whenever, with whomever as often as you
>> can.
>> *Lively thread of exchanges initiated by Harrison*
>>
>>
>>
>> . “all OS events I have seen are highly structured.”
>> *Michael M Pannwitz (mmp)*
>>
>>
>>
>> The language becomes tricky here as to whether ‘opening space’ and OS
>> events are to do with the principles and practice of *Open Space
>> Technology* operating through of the format of sitting in a circle and
>> co-creating a market place of  nominated topics related to the resolution
>> of complex issues.
>>
>>
>>
>> Or whether opening space can be done independently of this format.
>>
>>
>>
>> Of the thoughtful responses received there are two which answer the
>> question most ‘wonder fully’ and usefully for me and maybe for you too.
>>
>>
>>
>> From Anne Stadler:
>>
>>
>>
>> “Here's my current POV [point of view]:
>>
>>
>>
>> Opening a Marketplace is ONE form for OST. In my view all sorts of forms
>> exist.
>>
>>
>>
>> On all occasions, the "space" i open FIRST is the heart space within, via
>> emptying my mind & getting meditatively in touch with the intention I'm
>> called to take responsibility for. Then the form of the open space will
>> become evident as the opportunity clarifies.
>>
>>
>>
>> A hallmark of opening space with others for me is I must explicitly
>> invite them to "take responsibility for what you love" (Law of Two Feet) or
>> "follow what has heart and meaning."
>>
>>
>>
>> So conversare as you describe it, Alan, would be OS for me, if you'd
>> invite that. In using this approach to conversare, I would encourage people
>> to follow their hearts or intuition & find another person to talk with;
>> asking that person what he/she cares about, & discovering the
>> resonance/connection that exists between you.”
>>
>>
>>
>> From michael herman:
>>
>>
>>
>> “i would say, absolutely, yes, alan.  this IS open and opening space --
>> fully within the wherever, whomever spirit.  on structure, there is the
>> container that is offered, and then all of the decisions that are made
>> within it.  you make the offer and leave the details to the paired
>> participants to work out for themselves.  i think there is a big question
>> or theme, even if it's not explicitly stated.  there is a big thing to work
>> out together, and it's going to take everyone.  maybe the articulation of
>> this would be something along the lines of the bit you shared at vosonos,
>> about "loving the one in front of you."  there is nothing in the definition
>> of open space that says we have to limit ourselves to questions on which we
>> can make "measurable" progress in 90 mins or 2.5 days.  quite the opposite,
>> i think!  thanks for all of this.”
>>
>>
>>
>> I have also received supportive comments from locals here about their
>> experience of being in *Conversare* events and their ideas on potential
>> applications. Among these:
>>
>>
>>
>> “Congratulations Alan
>>
>> For getting conversare up and running in such an exceptional place.
>>
>> And support this idea – not before its time.
>>
>> An idea for our time.”
>> *Tim Walsh*
>>
>>
>>
>> “What uniquely exciting and practical ideas. And what a way it could be
>> for our wonderful new refugees to learn real English, and perhaps for all
>> of us to at least feel other languages.”
>> *Andrew Booth*
>>
>>
>>
>> Here are two closing thoughts to stimulate your 'pondering' ...
>>
>>
>>
>> 1. Could introducing the *Conversare* process be a way to open space for
>> all attendees to be full participants when we meet and greet in the evening
>> prior to the commencement of WOSonOS?
>>
>>
>>
>> Such an approach has not been used in the five of these which I have
>> attended, beginning in Monterey in 1998. Sitting in a circle in this
>> context did not enable everyone to be an active participant, in my
>> experience. Seeds have been sown and are likely sprouting in Manila …
>>
>>
>>
>> 2. Could hosting *Conversare* kind of gatherings be a new career option
>> for lively spirits who are so inclined? If this idea catches your attention
>> do have a good look around my blog as this has a wealth of background on
>> its principles, practices and inspirations. See also Some underpinnings
>> of Conversare events <http://conversare.net/?page_id=1920>  and Reclaiming
>> Conversation: the power of talk in a digital age
>> <http://conversare.net/?page_id=2022>
>>
>>
>>
>> With love and good wishes to you all for a joyous, peaceful and merry
>> Festive Season.
>>
>>
>>
>> And warmest salaams from Adelaide where today's temperature is 44C - 111F!
>>
>>
>>
>> Looking forward.
>>
>>
>>
>> Go well
>>
>>
>>
>> Alan
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> *Alan Stewart, PhDSocial ArtistSenior Fulbright ScholarFacilitator of
>> conversations that matter and participatory funBased in Adelaide and
>> operating throughout Austral-AsiaEm: **[email protected]*
>> <[email protected]>* and **[email protected]*
>> <[email protected]>
>> *Web: **www.multimindsolutions.com* <http://www.multimindsolutions.com>
>> *Blog: *
>> *Conversare  **Mob: +61*
>> *413848680* <http://conversare.net>*Member **National Trouble Makers
>> Union* <http://www.ntmu.com.au>
>>
>>  *New book: **Time to converse - at the heart of human warmth*
>> <http://www.multimindsolutions.com/?page_id=243>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> <http://www.multimindsolutions.com/?page_id=243>
>>
>> *"If there's dancing count me in"*
>>
>>
>>
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