Well Jimmie you asked for a poke on the nose. Your response below made me
wonder if you had actually read my post. I was using an example from 20
years ago as up to now I had not made any contribution to the current UE/LE
anecdotes.  
I can read your response as meant to agree that I did the right thing or,
that 'You' implies 'we (the enlightened ones)' However on first reading the
'don't worry about the idiots' felt patronising to me.
It only lasted for a second because I know you from the list and I really
appreciate that you acknowledge other members posts. I wonder if you feel
you know me. Your response doesn't give me any sense of that and feels like
being addressed as a newbie.
How very dangerous this written communication can be!
So - civility in posts is important
so is monitoring our emotional responses - looking for alternate meanings -
asking for clarification. This can generate a defensive response so maybe it
is only safe to do with Jimmie who has given permission.
Blessings to all - keep the passion alive,
Joan 
 
Jimmie's response
Joan,
  You just keep doing what your patient needs and don't worry about the
kinds of idiots that chastised you.
  Jimmie

Quote from my post
Well, hey it was my first client in that placement, my first
experience in acute care - anyway I was 50 years old at that point and the
person who told me off was 20 years younger and didn't make any sense so I
didn't pay much attention. I have never since been in a rehab situation
where that would have been said to me. Lucky or what?
Joan

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