Melissa, you are not alone in your frustration as this is going on all 
over the country and probably in fact all over the world. You have to 
feel sorry for the doctors really. You yourself feel new enough to 
midwifery to call yourself a baby midwife imadine what it feels like to 
be a baby doctor. Not only are they flung into a situation that they know 
nothing about but they have had it drummed into them that  they are 
responsible for the whole thing. They in fact must be scared s...less. 
Not only don't they know what is going on but they know you do. So my 
thought is for you to 'try' and share this wealth of knowledge you have 
with them. Introduce them properly to the women and her team. I mean make 
it in a way that encourages them to see tham as individuals rather that a 
faceless blob. Include personal stuff. Give them a verbal running 
commentary on all the things that you can see that tell you that the 
woman is progressing or not as the case may be. The signs that  you can 
see that tell you that she needs to go home or rest etc. It won't work 
the first time but it will penetrate the grey matter that you are there 
to help them  (the doctor) and give them the words to repeat to their 
superiors who they have to justify their actions to. The VMO doesn't ask 
them "what does the midwife think" they want to know how the doctor knows 
what the woman is up to and the only way they know how to find ou is by 
doing a VE. We are not good recorders of this information on our 
partographs and this is another area where we can document our opinions. 
If you think a woman's contractions have gone off because she is tired 
and needs to rest write this on the partogram next to where you indicate 
the contraction pattern. Mostly the deteriorating contraction pattern is 
sitting there alone and necessiatates the need for a VE to find out why 
as the doctor is not on the room long enough to see that the woman is in 
fact making the most of a lull to catch a few zzz's before she gets going 
again but if the VMO comes in and you say with confidence Shh. and 
indicate she is resting as if its the best thing on earth then he can 
leave and say to his superiors with confidence its OK she is gathering 
strength for the next stage. I know it doesn't always work but the fact 
that you can already see there is a game to be played makes you a 
valuable team player and so don't quit but take promotion in my book. 
Where to childhood rapidly approaching adolescence probably and you know 
how ugly those years can be!

The down side of the message is be careful when talking about your place 
of employment not to let it be identified as big brother is watching out 
there and they don't like it. You like me will think that they can go 
suck eggs but they can and will go after you so write the stories just 
don't link a location to your name.

Andrea Quanchi
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