> What do others think?  Could it? Would it?  I actually feel that it probably
> doesn't in our local hospitals, but you still hear of women feeling
> threatened into giving formula.  If you don;t he'll be dehydrated/it will
> clear up his jaundice etc. Any thoughts?

A bit off topic, , but I remember, with my first child, while breastfeeding
was still such a 'personal' social challenge, my mother providing me with a
bottle and formula during a visit to her - my child was about 2 months old.

I knew it was wrong (for me and my son) to bottle-feed (I had breastfed up
till then) but suddenly I felt more comfortable/accepted giving my son a
bottle than I ever felt exposing my breast to feed him at my mother's
house.... Somehow I felt that I had gained her approval. Sad.

Luckily he totally refused the bottle! He was not impressed. And the
breastfeeding continued regardless of my mother's plans... But for a few
minutes I gained my mother's approval - which is what I bet many daughters
challenge today, isn't it?

And for those few minutes of approval, I felt happy - more so than any other
time feeding my child at my mother's house. I also always felt that I was
doing the wrong thing, but somehow in 'conforming' to what my mother thought
was right (ie, bottler-feeding) felt good...

Mothers have so much impact on their daughter's success at breastfeeding -
they should be incorporated into all breastfeeding information classes. They
need to learn what is best for their grandchildren and then they would
probably be the best advocates - something they may have lacked in their own
personal experiences.

Just some thoughts.
BB Jackie Mawson.

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