Hi Sue,
Wanted to congratulate you on the great outcome with the doctor. I came across a quote which immediately made me think of your story:
"Changing birth one OB at a time!"
~Nadine Romain
And this is what you did!!
Hope you enjoyed your weekend away
Hugs, Larissa
 
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, April 26, 2002 6:34 PM
Subject: VBAC feedback

Dear list
A couple of weeks ago I asked if any of you had seen or heard of manual checking of scars following VBAC.
I collated your responses, copied the relevant passage from "Effective Guide...".
and wrote a letter to go with it all, and posted the lot to the doctor involved.
He telephoned me at home a few days later, actually on the weekend,  and we had a very lengthy conversation.  He was a bit taken aback at the force of some of your comments!
On balance, I feel the conversation was productive and was not acrimonious.  I respected the fact that he phoned me at home rather than make a verbal assault in the workplace, and it gave us both the opportunity to express our opinions in a neutral zone. 
I have worked with this doctor (among others) for the past 11 years, and we have had one or two disagreements in that time, without it ever becoming nasty, so I was happy that this was the same.
He did say that he would no longer manually check scars - so I guess you could say that the result was a positive one!  And I said that I respected his decision to change his practice in light of evidence etc..
It was an interesting exercise for me, as even after all this time (23 years) as a midwife, I still found it took a great deal of courage to actually confront the power of the medical profession.  (Why???)
Anyway, thank you for all your feedback - none of my colleagues had heard of this procedure either - though in all fairness, my research has shown me that it was indeed considered normal practice once! 
Happy IMD to you all.  I shall be celebrating with a long-overdue, childfree weekend alone with my husband!
 
Sue C

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