I agree with Macha. What does your pelvis have to do with the tear. I would really recommend you get a hold of the 'PINK KIT' which has the most fantastic perineal massage in it. (not like the perineal massage I have seen described in most books) I have see the most amazing results from women who do this massage.
Leaves to say that I would recommend that you find your own midwife. I would love to know why you are not birthing at home this time. What about a midwife support in hospital? Good borning. Sally -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit <http://www.acegraphics.com.au> to subscribe or unsubscribe.