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Wasn't the first birth an emergency c/s? I got the feeling
she thought the baby was alive and well before labour started and then the baby
pased mec, the emergency c/s and the MAS. I think there was a lot of fear
involved and I think at least in the Women's Weekly story the mum acknowledged
that. I too was disappointed that she opted for a ceasarean birth, but I have
never had to face her situation. Many, many issues which may or may not ever be
faced.
I worked with an amazing woman in the USA who had a very empowering
homebirth vbac with her second daughter after a stillbirth due to ascending
E.coli infection with her first. Her first birth had been an intended homebirth
that was transfered to the hospital for prolonged labour after prolonged
rupture of membranes and mec liquor. The mum and babe were monitored with ctg
upon admission and a satisfactory trace was obtained. The cesarean was finally
done for so-called FTP but not fetal distress, the baby was moribund when born,
though they did try to resuscitate her. Apparently the whole theatre staff were
crying, as they had all expected a live baby. This birth had happened in a small
rural hospital in another state, so everyone new each other it was very
traumatic. The mom had not dilated past 3cm during this birth. So, with her
second birth we decided that if we had to do a VE no matter what it would never
be 3cm. This mom worked so hard on processing all through her pregnancy and
before and afterwards, on many levels too psychological, spiritual, physical.
When she did go into labour, she galloped along so that when I got there and she
requested a VE there was no lying about her 6cm and 2 hours later she had a
lovely 9.5 lb baby girl crying in her arms. Mom had been certain she was having
a boy, and was just overjoyed and overwhelmed with her daughter.
Just my thoughts.
marilyn
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- [ozmidwifery] Australian Story Timothy & Rochelle
- [ozmidwifery] Australian Story Larry & Megan
- Re: [ozmidwifery] Australian Story Dr Penelope A Barrett
- Re: [ozmidwifery] Australian Story Jodie Miller
- [ozmidwifery] australian story Grant and Louise
- Re: [ozmidwifery] australian story Marilyn Kleidon
- Re: [ozmidwifery] australian story Terry Garnons-Williams

