Wonderful news Reuben is doing so well, and an amazing account of yours and
Tas's intuition!  Fantastic for your daughter.

Jo
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From: "Joy Cocks" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Ozmidwifery" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Monday, February 03, 2003 2:19 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Update on Reuben


> Many of you will remember my daughter's surviving twin, Reuben.  He is
doing
> EXCEPTIONALLY well, better than any of us could have possibly hoped for.
> He's 8/12 old today and had a routine paed checkup 10 days ago.  He's
> chubby, never been sick - not even a cold, bright, active and starting to
> catch up developmentally.  There is no sign of any residual problems from
> his prematurity - just some little scars from all of his i/v's, which
he'll
> be able to show off proudly if they're still visible later on in life.
He's
> fully breastfed, of course, and paed couldn't believe how well he's doing,
> doesn't want to see him till he's 18/12 and then B4 he goes to kinder.
Even
> his umbilical hernia, which was measured at 5 cm has completely
disappeared.
> He had 2 x inguinal hernias repaired (at the same time) just after he came
> out of hospital.  He's cuddly and quite an "easy" baby.  We are so, so
> grateful.
>
> Now for the goosebumpy stuff: a few months ago, when I was "visiting"
Tilly
> at the cemetery I had the strongest feeling that she had died to save
> Reuben, so that he would have the strength of 2 babies.  I related this to
> Sally, she went quiet and asked if she had told me what Tas (her 4 y/o)
had
> said a few days B4 - she hadn't.  He was in the bath and said, "mummy, can
> we talk about Tilly?", "yes, of course", "she died because of Reuben",
"no,
> she didn't die because of Reuben, she died because she was very sick",
"yes,
> I know that, but she died because of Reuben"!  Sally said, "I wonder if
> that's what Tas meant."  I'm sure it was, and recently when we were
talking
> about it, Sally said that it really helped her to know this.
> Joy
> PS  Tas was born "in the caul" which, as we all know, makes him extra
> special (according to folklore anyway).  In any case, he does seem to be
> very intuitive, a quality to be nurtured.
>
> Joy Cocks RN (Div 1) RM CBE IBCLC
> BRIGHT Vic 3741
> email:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
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