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I am leaving a midwifery position where I have continually
witnessed brutal assaults to labouring, birthing women, no doubt
deeply traumatised by their experience for a long time afterward,
likewise their significant others supporting them during the
childbirth experience. Prior to my resignation I need to make a
difference.
Initially I was horrified, complained to other midwives/obstetric
nurses I work with, whom were judgemental, commenting that perhaps I
should seek employment elsewhere. I complained to the unit
manager whom decided I should attend the next obstetric meeting
sharing my concerns with obstetricians involved.(And get shot between
the eyeballs)
As a stand alone midwife, NZ trained, I began informing women
what to expect with vaginal examinations and what not to expect,
hence:discomfort, not excruciating pain. That painful VE are
unnecessary.
Feedback from women post VE:
"I felt like I had been raped."
"It felt like my wisdom teeth were being pulled out through my
vagina."
"The pain was so bad I tried to crawl out the top of the bed to
get away."
"My husband will never forgive me for this."
Breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes that this crap is
allowed to continue. My main goal is to make a change for
even one women that I make a connection with, the reason I continued
to work there.
For my professional, personal well being, but mostly for
women I need to take this one step further. I desperately
want these obstetricians to realise that their vaginal
examinations are brutal assaults and not acceptable.
I am prepared to do what ever it takes to stop women
suffering.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
At this point I would prefer to remain anonymous for the time
being, I know you will understand.
THANKS
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