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Hoi Simone,
I am glad to have such an answer, it helps me
also to understand views other than what I know.
The osteopath I mentioned said he had his learning
with a french female osteopath, so it could be the same as yours.
My way of thinking is the following:
Most of women are perfectly made to give birth and
their bodys will prepare themselves (I also don't believe in prenatal techniques
on nipples to shape them). During the last period of the pregnancy the cervix
ripens, it sometimes happens in a few hours. Also the tissues around the cervix
and in the vagina soften then. I believe that you can't acces the tissues during
the pregnancy because it doesn't tell anything about what happens during labour.
To compare: Gyns do vaginal touches to predict prematurity or to predict when a
mother will give birth: I never found any studie that proves they can, on
the contrary I often meet women where the doc said they are not giving birth
in the next few days and a few hours later the baby is born. Also they say
you are going to birth earlier and the mothers go overdue till 42 weeks. Women
are unpredictable, hurray :-))
I think that when you learn the mothers what
happens in their body and by telling them that they don't have to think, just to
trust they will have the birth on their way. I am talking here of mothers who
have no scars caused by abuse. During the pregnancy I teach the mothers to get
in contact with their body and the child. I learn them to feel the position of
the child, so they come to the consultation and they tell me what is going on in
their body. That gives them the power and helps them to be soft at birth and
give the baby the space to be born. (cf haptonomy)
Whole the society is focused on all what is wrong
with women so that birth is difficult. I think (and it is my experience) that
most women have normal and empowering births without others doing things to
them to improve their bodys.
In our country, most of the women have to give
birth on their back, while sacrum and coccyx are not able to open up, despite
all techniques. First thing we need to do is give women the freedom to move
during labor and birth and not only the coccyx :-))
(I am a dreamer, you know)
What is dangerous on vaginal examens:
I think it is not the force what is the danger, but
the readiness of the woman tho open up for you that makes the difference. The
mother I talked about didn't say it hurted, but she was uncertain about her
feelings about it (the osteopath also made noises to let the energy flow). Her
husband was not present, nor someone else. She went to the osteopath for the
first time at 36 weeks and had two visits with each an internal touche. She had
no written information, nor time to think outside the office.
I think that osteopaths can be a great aide in
pregnancy when it comes to help with burning acide, back aches, instability of
the pelvis and a lot of other problems also with baby after a difficult birth. I
work with a few very good osteopaths and admire their abilitys and knowing. Just
in this case I have a lot of questions.
I am very curieus about more ideas and points of
views. It's a pity I live so far away from you all.
Is anybody going to the conference of Midwifery
Today in Germany?
greetings
Lieve
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