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>>I agree with Jo in that no-one
can force you. However it might be an option to look into booking into another
hospital where your choices are supported. It can be difficult to labour &
birth in a negative environment where people are likely to pressure you to
change your mind throughout.
Ditto from me. I did VBAC, but it took
alot of "negotiation". I worked all through my pregnancy with my OB, and she was
fine, but every midwife I met from the hospital told me I should be booking in
for a cs. They gave me time limits, monitoring requirements and other
impediments. All were, according to them, non negotiable. I had already
negotiated all with my OB.
I finally wrote to the unit manager,
pointed out that I was doomed to a cs if I had any of those midwives, and
requested that the most supportive midwife rostered on be allocated to me. In
the end, I was allocated my midwife in advance - a midwife volunteered to take
my case, and was called in when I showed up in labour. I could not have
succeeded without the full commitment of everyone in that room.
So, if I were you, I would investigate
other hospitals to see if one is more supportive, or I would start jumping up
and down, and demanding that your needs be met. Mine were - in a private
hospital that does not have any sort of continuity of midwifery care program.
It's amazing what you can achieve if you are "difficult" enough!
Kate
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