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Up here too they say 2, although many of the
midwives consider a doula to not be counted as part of the 2 and will be open to
more besides. Obviously the idea is to restrict it to only those there with a
purpose & not crowd the midwives ability to work, both great reasons,
protecting the birth space is vital. Just not always explained, not only not
properly but sometimes at all. People come out saying I cant have more than 2
people but they felt they could benefit from 3 proper support people. This means
they are denied the choice unless they get assertive or ask others until they
get a different answer. Most dont do that of course because they are not aware
that there are different possible answers. It astounds me sometimes that some
people dont think twice about having a Dr & his entourage of students pour
into this sacred space and yet balk at more than 2 support people. Just another
of the many contradictions found in the world of pregnancy & birth.
Personally I have 4 for my first ( they were all useless) & I had my doula
& husband for my second (Mum running around making things tense for
the first few hours), I have to say that regardless of numbers well picked
support is the essential element. I have worked as part of teams of Dad,
friend/mum & doula along side midwives & had this work extremely well.
There is alot of work especially in a long labour for just 1 or 2
people.
Will love & respect,
Philippa Scott
Doula Birth Buddies Supporting Women ~ Creating Life President - Friends of the Birth Centre Townsville
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Title: RE: [ozmidwifery] Birth Parties
