Hi lagi moms... emang usia segitu memang mereka lagi memasuki tahap yang namanya usi
a tantrum. berikut ada cuplikan dari buku supernanny (by. Jo Frost) mengenai tantrum. ... Your child is very unlikely to get through toddlerhood without erupting in one those spectacular floor shows that is also known as a tantrum. Some children are more prone to tantrums than others; they seem to have a shorter fuse. Perhaps it's just something in their make up. The tantrum is where the toddler comes up bang against the world and the world doesn't budge. It can be triggered by many different things, but the root cause is always some form of frustration. Either your child has found she/he can't do something that she/he wants to do because she/he doesn't yet have the necessary skills to do it, or something hasn't turned out the way she/he expected, or you have stopped her/him from doing something she/he wants to do, or tried to make her/him do something she/he doesn't want to do- or she/he has simply got to the end of her/his emotional tether. Whatever the reason, the fuse is lit and everything blows. ....... Here's how to deal with a tantrum: *The first thing to do is to make sure she can't hurt herself, hurt other people, or damage things. * Try to stay calm. Anger will only inflame the situation. If you can't guarantee you'll keep your temper, leave the room.The worst thing you can do is have a tantrum back. *Forget to trying to reason with her. She can't hear you (and doesn't want to). *Some children come out a tantrum more quickly if they are held securely. With others, that makes it worse. *Remove yourself from the room- if you can- once you are sure she's not going to hurt herself or damage anything. If the tantrum is semi-deliberate, as it can be when an older toddler wants her way, removing attention completely can do the trick. ... berikut ini juga ada link yang bisa mom baca-baca tentang tantrum. http://children.webmd.com/tc/temper-tantrums-topic-overview Mudah-mudahan membantu.. Kesimpulan saya sih, dari kesemuanya itu ujung-ujungnya pesan buat kita yang lagi "pusing" dengan stage ini cuma... SABAR! heheheheh Cheers, Lidia ________________________________ From: Juni Manoe <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Fri, March 5, 2010 11:14:05 PM Subject: Re: [parentsguide] anak jadi pemarah hi moms, Ikutan juga nih..senasib. .anakku jg begitu..kenapa pas usia 4 thn ya ? Ditunggu informasinya juga. Terimakasih. Rgds, Juni ________________________________ From: Lidia Sindoro <drewjeremysetiono@ yahoo.com> To: parentsguide@ yahoogroups. com Sent: Fri, March 5, 2010 5:05:58 PM Subject: Re: [parentsguide] anak jadi pemarah hi mom vivi... keadaan kita sama banget... persis!! waktu mau menginjak usia 4tahun. dan sampai sekarang anak saya (4th 6bln) mendadak jadi pemarah dan membangkang. .. secara memang usia mereka lagi memasuki usia tantrum, tapi meski tau gitu seringkali gemes juga dibuatnya... saya sendiri bahkan kadang jadi stress gak keruan... teorinya mah kalo anak lagi marah2, kita jangan ikut marah, kudu bisa hadapi dengan tenang, tapi kenyataannya kalo kitanya lagi capek, dan banyak kerjaan bisa kesel juga dibuatnya... anak saya beberapa bulan terakhir ini jadi suka bentak-bentak, nggak sabaran, pemarah, pokok'nya ngeselin banget... (hehehheheheh) tapi keselnya jadi ilang gitu aja setelah lihat dia tidur...:) maaf yah, bukannya membantu malah jadi ikut curhat... moms and dads lain yang udah sukses melewati masa ini tolong sharingnya yah.... :) salam, Lidia ________________________________ From: Serviany Vhie Widjaja <vhie_prully@ yahoo.co. id> To: parentsguide@ yahoogroups. com Sent: Thu, March 4, 2010 10:16:48 PM Subject: [parentsguide] anak jadi pemarah dear parents.. ada yang bisa bantu share nya.. mengenai pengalaman menghadapi anak yang tiba-tiba menjadi pembangkang dan pemarah? Putri saya bln depan memasuki usia 4thn.. tapi saya merasa beberapa minggu terakhir ini dia menjadi sering marah-marah dan melawan perkataan saya. padahal sebelumnya dia tidak seperti ini.. apakah ini memang tingkah laku anak yg seusia ini? saya jadi stress juga menghadapinya. . serba salah.. kalau saya bicara pelan dia tetap juga menjawab dengan teriakan dan tidak mau menurut.. saya coba utk sabar tapi lama-lama emosi juga... tolong sharenya ya.. bagaimana saya harus menghadapinya dan mengubah perilakunya. .. thanks.. vivi ________________________________ Nikmati chatting lebih sering di blog dan situs web Gunakan Wizard Pembuat Pingbox Online
