Wendy, My Dad died several years ago after a 2 year bout with colon cancer. My mom died a week later. Even with lots of warning, there are some things that they won't let you do and many things that you can't say - either one of you. I was surprised at my Dad's second (less threatening) surgery when he handed me his watch and got choked up over something he was trying to say. He told me that he had meant to tell me something as he went into his first surgery, but couldn't. He said that it was OK, because he knew I would take care of it anyhow. Trust them, they know how you felt but had to do things in their own way.
Regards, Bob S. [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: > Now I'm just sad about all the things I didn't do and didn't say and now > it's too late. Makes you think, doesn't it.
