Lasse:

There are two ways to respond to people, like BR, who make offensive
remarks on this list:

1.  Ignore them

2.  Tell them that you do not condone such rude behavior, and request that
they stop.

You did neither.  Instead, you countered with a rude remark of your own,
about BR's nationality (and mine).  That is as bad -- or at least almost
as bad -- as the conduct you claim to deplore.

I read you explanation of your remark, and it does not convince me that
the remark was not rude and intended to reflect badly on Americans in
general.  I think that you were (rightly) upset by BR's remark , and
responded in anger.  While that may be understandable, it still has no
place on this list.

I spent 2 weeks in Denmark, Norway and Sweden last year, and I enjoyed
both the scenery and the people I met very much.  I had expected better of
you, I guess.

Dan.

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