None of my business, I know, but John, I think that Frank deserves respect
and credit for all of the effort he goes to to be fair and just and to
comment on everyone's pics.

I must admit that I tend to do exactly what you have suggested - post only
when I really love something rather than offering constructive criticisms on
images that I feel can be improved.  There is a couple of reasons for this
a) time - I am just too busy to comment on EVERYTHING posted b) I don't
think I am qualified, much of the time to comment.  eg, I am not "in to"
landscape photography so if I see a landscape shot that I think "ho-hum", I
won't comment as I am not passionate about them to begin with and don't
possess alot of the technical knowledge to understand how a certain image
may have been produced.  However, if I see a landscape photograph that blows
me away, then I will comment as it must be REALLY good to even "catch my
eye".

I have often thought to myself that I am a little selfish with this list and
that I draw from it much more than I contribute.  So if Frank seems to
"offer" more than he "takes" than so be it - he can be "offering" extra for
me! lol.

Also, I do understand your point that if no-one comments on a photo, then
the photographer can assume that it was an "average" shot, however, what is
he/she going to LEARN from that? "Oooh, I'd better not post any more average
shots to the PDML..." BUT, if someone posts a less than spectacular shot and
people, like Frank, take the time to offer suggestions on how to improve the
image, it is only going to make them think about it more in future, and even
in some cases that I have seen, go out and specifically do a reshoot of the
same subject taking on everyone's advice.

Put it this way, I always tell my kids, "you can't learn if you don't ask",
but likewise, you can't learn if nobody answers your questions either...

tan.

-----Original Message-----
From: John Forbes [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, 1 April 2004 10:58 AM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Criticism - was PAW: Dinosaur, too


Frank,

Your terse initial response generated a rather sour (and therefore
private) reply.

My question was not just rhetorical.  I am new here, and wondered if there
was some reason why some people seem to respond to most if not all
pictures posted.  Are they Judge for the Month or something?

My view is that if you can find nothing constructive to say, it is best to
say nothing.  Your response to the dinosaur post fell into the category of
nothing constructive (praising exposure and sharpness on a shot like that
is definitely damning with faint praise).

Those who only post to praise (or to offer useful advice) will surely not
be seen as liking everything because they won't be responding to
everything.  What is not said can speak as loudly as what is said.

If somebody posts a picture, and nobody responds, I think they can assume
it wasn't a great picture (in the eyes of those who saw it)!

I certainly don't think people just want positive feedback, but remarks
like "just leaves me cold" are neither helpful nor encouraging, and those
are surely the criteria that should apply to all well-meant criticism.

Best wishes

John


On Wed, 31 Mar 2004 19:01:20 -0500, frank theriault
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> John,
>
> Why would you think it's better to just say nothing?  I truly don't
> understand that.
>
> The whole spirit of PAW (I think), is not only to share photos, but to
> comment on the photos of others.  My personal feeling, is that I'm not
> being fair to the ones that I like, if I don't comment on the ones that
> don't move me.  Otherwise, people might think, "Hell, frank's comments
> are meaningless, he likes everything!"  Don't you agree there has to be
> a balance here, in order for me and my comments to have credibility?
> (such as it is <g>)
>
> I think that Francis (and everyone else who submits PAWs) likely
> submitted, not only because he wanted to share the image, but because he
> wanted to know what others think - that's what PAW's all about, IMHO.
>
> Francis did say, "comments welcome and very much appreciated".  Did he
> really mean, "only favourable comments are welcome and appreciated"?
> I'm guessing "no".
>
> I would actually be thrilled if an avalanche of posts followed mine,
> saying (either directly or indirectly), "frank, you're wrong, this is a
> great photo;  you've obviously missed something here."  So far, I
> haven't seen that.  But if that's what people think, great!  No one
> likes every photograph, or every work of art - this is all subjective.
> I love the process of debate, and I invite anyone here to tell me I'm
> dead wrong.  Not only wouldn't it bother me, I'd be quite happy!
>
> You know, I think that if I posted a PAW, and not one person commented
> on it, I'd be quite upset!  I'd much rather people be honest, and tell
> me why something isn't working.  I'd rather honest, well thought out
> constructive criticism much better than silence.  We're all friends and
> colleagues here, for goodness sake.
>
> I'm wondering, John, why you said, "sometimes it's better to just say
> nothing".  Did you think I was being scathing?  I sure as heck didn't
> think so.  Certainly, my post wasn't a personal attack or anything.  It
> was a critique, or more properly, a comment, and a pretty balanced one
> at that!
>
> Sorry to go off so, but to be honest, you've really struck a nerve (can
> you tell? <g>).  If you don't want to comment on what you don't like, I
> won't criticize you for it.  It's your prerogative, just as it's mine to
> comment on ones that don't do much for me, for the reasons stated
> above.  I'd like to think that people on this list know me well enough
> that I wouldn't personally attack anyone, and that a negative or less
> than enthusiastic comment on a photo is just that - regarding that
> particular photo.  And, that it's just my opinion.  What the heck is
> that worth, anyway?
>
> Anyway, now I've got that off my chest.  <vbg>
>
> cheers,
> frank
>
> "The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds.  The
> pessimist fears it is true."  -J. Robert Oppenheimer
>
>
>
>
>> From: John Forbes <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> Subject: Re: PAW: Dinosaur, too
>> Date: Wed, 31 Mar 2004 22:28:47 +0100
>>
>> Frank,
>>
>> Why do you feel you should comment on every PAW?  Perhaps sometimes it
>> is better just to say nothing.
>>
>> John
>>
>
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