Hi Bob and everyone,

Some how "I think it is utterly shameful and a disgrace" and "Cheers, Bob",
don't seem to go together too well.....Except on this list.

I have been amazed at the variety of opinion and viewpoint that this list
encompasses.
Even though it only consists of e-mails there are some people here I've
taken a very strong liking to, and some I feel a dislike for!
I wonder what it'd be like to compare "e-mail personalities" to the real
person?
Some of you have had that opportunity, I have not.
I would guess that many of the people here would not be at all what I
expected, if I use their e-mails as an indicator of their true
personalities.
I have recieved several responses to my posts that could be taken as very
nasty, if *I* chose to take them that way.
With the exception of one person who is rude by choice (who I now pretty
much ignore), I have chosen to let other comments roll off my back. I prefer
to think of them as simply mis-understandings or "communication gaps" due to
culture, age or personal opinion.
You all know what they say about opinions,....I have one of *those* too.

Personally I get the feeling that Shel and Frank might get singled out
because they ARE respected and liked, not the other way around.

Frank: How can people NOT poke fun at someone who allows himself to be seen
in pink bunny ears? ;-)
PLEASE don't leave the list because a "few of many" show disrespect.
If that was my criteria for leaving somewhere there would be no where left
on this planet for me.
I like SOME of your photos, others I don't much care for, that's just *my
opinion*, doesn't really count for sh*t.

I do try to have the good grace not to "condemn" anyone for their work, but
I will comment or "criticize", ...if they *ask* for comments and criticism.
I do very much agree with Bobs statement: "But there's absolutely no need to
personalise your dislike......".

This list is one example of how many VERY different people can get along.
For me that means swallowing some things I don't like, or agree with, but in
the long run it seems well worth it.

My apologies for all the wind.

"Don the Verbose"


> -----Original Message-----
> From: Bob W [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Monday, August 09, 2004 3:01 PM
> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Subject: Re: I think I Need a Break
>
>
> Hi,
>
> [...]
>
> > Fine.  Not everyone is into one of the types of
> > photography that that I enjoy.  I appreciate that.
> > The funny thing is, though, that I can still
> > appreciate those other types of photography that maybe
> > I'm not so good at.  In fact, maybe I appreciate them
> > more, because I can't do them.  I don't go around
> > trashing people because they take photos that I can't.
>
> I think it is utterly shameful and a disgrace that somebody chose to
> personalise things by picking on Frank and Shel's photographs. Frank
> and Shel have been major factors in stimulating a very broad range of
> different discussions on this list over the last few years.
>
> There are other people on the list who also receive unstinting praise,
> and never a word of criticism, for work in a different style than Frank
> and Shel's. These other people's work is stuff that I personally think is
> pedestrian at best, and boring at worst. But since it is not
> really my type
> of photography there is nothing at all for anyone to gain by me
> saying anything
> about it.
>
> This does not mean that there is some kind of peer group pressure not
> to criticise that stuff, it's just that people may choose not to. If
> somebody receives endless praise for their photos of furtwangling, but
> I think they're indistinguishable from the rather dismal amateur section
> of 'Furtwangler Monthly', and anyway all pictures of furtwangling are the
> same, this doesn't mean I'm too peer-pressured or scared to speak
> out against
> the pretentiousness of furtwangler photos, it just means I can't be
> bothered, or I realise that other people find furtwangling a subject of
> infinite fascination, so I let them be.
>
> If you don't like photojournalism, fine.
> If you don't like 'street photography', fine.
> If you don't like pictures of birds on twigs with catchlights, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of motor racing, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of caterpillars, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of Mono Lake, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of kittens, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of children, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of flowers, fine.
> If you don't like landscapes, fine.
> If you don't like pictures of ducks, fine.
> If you don't like furtwanglography, fine.
>
> But there's absolutely no need to personalise your dislike in the way
> that it's been personalised towards Shel and Frank. If you don't like
> their style of photography, fine. There are plenty of people here who
> don't like your style of photography either, but we live with it
> because it's a pluralistic world and we are here - or at least I
> thought we were - to share and enjoy the whole subject.
>
> --
> Cheers,
>  Bob
>

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