The card is in the camera. Thanks to all of you for input (again) - Caveman gets the largest gold star (possibly because we have the same camera :) )
Following the four steps he gave me was like following my nose but I would not have been able to work it out myself (always worried I'm gonna screw it up bigtime) - It didn't even matter that I had images I took in the camera on the card... annsan technoidiot
