Marnie,

You and I are of about the same 'vintage', and advocates of women's rights.
I supported my wife and other women as they struggled thru the '70's.
My daughter has just turned 21 and is a great result,
more ambitious & accomplished than her brothers and will go farther too!

I see fashion as a culprit now... Too much, "Wow - look at me, I'm
like Britany Spears."  My 16 year old neice doesn't think she is
selling her sexuality, but that what it amounts to.

And this said, I still like looking at female nudes, even provocative
ones.  Me and Jimmy Carter occasionally have a little lust in our
hearts.

Regards,  Bob S.

On 11/26/05, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> In a message dated 11/26/2005 5:28:58 AM Pacific Standard Time,
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
> I think the term "objectifying women" has lost its literal meaning. In
> our PC world it has come to mean depicting women in a way that is
> blatantly sexual. However, that being said, I find that a difficult
> line to draw. Human beings are inherently sexual. Its part of the
> package. I don't know what turns an artful nude into a sex object.
> Props? A smile? The display of specific areas of the body?
> Paul
> ==========
> To me the term means turning women into just body parts. That's the basic
> feminist meaning. JUST body parts. No humanity, no individuality, no 
> personality,
> no flaws, no reality, etc. Mainly to sell products. This is the way it used
> when originally protested by women. Madison Avenue. Sexy women on leaning cars
> in TV commercials to sell cars when actually the woman leaning on the car had
> nothing to do with the car. So it's not done as much anymore. For instance, in
> car commercials now, it's mainly the car -- how fast it can go, the safety
> features, the lines, etc. I do remember the way it was before though.
>
> So it doesn't mean just sexual, per se, although that is part of it. And men
> can be objectified too, but it's not done as often. However, fashion magazines
> still do it, for both genders. Yes, as a term, it also includes pornography.
> But that is a whole other issue.
>
> So basically it means turning a subject into an object. And with live
> subjects, human beings, turning them into just parts, lesser than the whole. 
> Losing
> their... what is listed above... humanity, personality, individuality, etc.,
> and aliveness To be admired as just objects -- not admired for their 
> uniqueness,
> but their commonality.
>
> Oh, well, I knew when I said it that I would get some reactions. And yes, the
> line is difficult to draw sometimes.
>
> But I still felt a need to say it -- those part of my feminist stripes have
> not changed, although I am on a list that is 95-99% male. However, if most of
> the women on the list react similarly to a photograph that tells you something
> right there.
>
> Marnie aka Doe :-)
>
>

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