On 1/9/06, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Well, for one thing, I wasn't agreeing with the majority, though I haven't
> finished the thread yet. :-)
>
> But for me, it changed, when Kevin said he was personally involved even at a
> distance. That's a different kettle of fish.

As a parent Kevin has a responsibility to his children, but as a human
being, he has a responsibility to the rest of humankind.  Yes, that
even means that he must consider the rights of anyone who may be
accused of doing bad things to his children.

> And I am not aware that he is
> under any "gag order" not to mention it.

Of course he isn't.

> As a parent and a victim and a customer,
> Kevin is entitled to his reactions.

No one is trying to stop Kevin from experiencing his reactions, but
that does not give him carte blanche to trample on the rights of
everyone he feels ~may~ have wronged his loved ones.

> And has the freedom of speech to voice
> them.

With freedom of speech comes ~responsibilty~.  One is free to stand up
in a theater and yell "fire!", but that person must accept the
consequences of so doing.

> And the vendor has the right to know they may have hired someone,
> unknowingly, that might turn customers off.

If a complaint is made WRT an employee, such a complaint may haunt
that person for the rest of their life, whether they lose their job or
not.  Accusations of a sexual nature must never be made lightly, for
as this list has proven today, an accusation or mere suggestion of
involvement is enough to convince some of automatic guilt.

>. Although the store owner may know already
> and he/she also has the right to hire whom he/she wants.

Sorry, Marnie, but once someone is hired, the law protects them from
wrongful dismissal.  A store owner most certainly doens ~not~ have the
right to let someone go without a good reason.

 Customers also have
> the right not to patronize his/her store.

As they do for any number of reasons.

>
> I think it's because, Jack, people do get accused that later turn out to be
> innocent. And that is something to be concerned about. But I don't think,
> personally, it negates the above.

It sure as heck does!  <g>

cheers,
frank




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