Greetings Economists,
Two articles of interest in the NYTimes this week.  First in the
Magazine an article about the on-going influence of bullying amongst
young women in terms of the impact of social emotion.

Confronting Bullies Who Wound With Words
NYTimes, October 16, 2005
Long Island Journal
By MARCELLE S. FISCHLER

...
The war isn't fought with sticks or stones, but with social weapons
that cut children this age much deeper: taunts and teases,
name-calling, gossip-mongering and scapegoating. The ways youngsters
are tormented and ostracized by one another, often in the guise of
being cool or hip, are the stuff of teenage nightmares: being made the
butt of a clique's disdain, not being invited to the party everyone is
talking about, and increasingly, being eviscerated in nasty instant
messages over the Internet.

...
popular girls are the cliquey girls, and they are exclusive. They won't
be friends with anyone who is a little different from them, and they
won't interact with anyone who is not in their group."

Middle schoolers say meanness pervades their world.

...
"Bullying today is less about children hitting each other than it is
about children being victimized by a culture of meanness," said Alane
Fagin, executive director of the organization. "Children understand
what many adults seem to have forgotten: You don't have to get hit to
get hurt."

Doyle,
And earlier in the week one of those advice type bits of capitalist
wisdom here:

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/10/13/fashion/thursdaystyles/13crying.html?
8hpib

Ms. Majewski, 34, knows what it is like to cry at work because she has
done so herself - once. She was in her early 20's and had a scare about
a magazine cover photo shoot falling through. Her boss took her aside
and told her she needed to remain composed in front of her colleagues.

She has since handed down the lesson to her own employees, suggesting
that they leave the office and take a walk if they feel the need to
cry. "Don't even go into the bathroom," she said. "If you go into the
bathroom, someone's going to see you and the gossip gets around."

When a woman does cry at work, she should address her superior about it
directly, Ms. Majewski said. "Go to your boss and say, 'I was quite
overtaken with emotion, it's so not me, I hope you understand,' " she
said. "Just don't blame it on your period."

Some women pinch their skin, bite their lips or breathe deeply to stem
tears while at work. Advice on the Society for Women Engineers' Web
site, swe.org, suggests anticipating and rehearsing difficult
situations. An article about crying on Womensmedia.com, advises
emotional detachment: "Compartmentalizing feelings is also a good skill
to learn. Practice not acting on a feeling you have."

Crying at work is different from crying at a wedding, a sappy movie or
at someone's hospital bed because it is typically triggered not by
compassion or even sadness but by frustration or anger. And at work
people are expected to react rationally to such feelings.

"When people show emotionalism in the workplace, they are not taken as
seriously," said Mary Gatta, the director of work force policy and
research at the Center for Women and Work at Rutgers University.

Men learned this lesson back in the late 18th and early 19th centuries,
when the Industrial Revolution structured the workplace and the
workday, and required a disciplined work force, said Tom Lutz, the
director of the M.F.A. writing program at the California Institute of
the Arts and the author of "Crying: The Natural and Cultural History of
Tears." Factory managers trained their workers to be calm and rational,
the better to be productive. "You don't want emotions interfering with
the smooth running of things," Mr. Lutz said.

Doyle,
The Iraq war demonstrates a good socialist strategy to whip the
capitalist ass with, social solidarity.  But not just any old
solidarity.  While religion can in the absence of robust socialist
alternatives gives a ready made communal structure to batter the
juggernaut of capitalist culture, the real deal is emotion structure
built up in working class political structures.  Primarily universalist
in theory, meaning all the working class is included, the problem has
been material understanding of emotion structure to out maneuver the
long standing moralist theories of various religious practices that
capitalist use to oppose socialist national liberation.  Where morality
is a primitive of emotion structure theory.

As the Times article indicates a solution for young women directly
addresses the sexist structure of American society.  So it is obvious a
socialist women's movement would take up a reformation of global
socialism to directly advocate an emotion structure that tears apart
those emotion structures that oppress them.  This is not a nation state
issue but a global power for women issue.  The most significant female
thinkers in socialism, de Beauvoir, Nussbaum, Davis all seem pointed in
that direction.  They have an alliance with the demands for disability
rights ready made to end the oppression of capitalist emotion
structure.  Let women cry, and fire managers that demand anything that
stops emotion in the work place.
thanks,
Doyle

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