Hmm.....dari milis sebelah, sepertinya perlu buat teman2 yang ingin jadi orang sukses, saya kepengen banget.....
Sebetulnya, sederhana sekali kalo mau jadi pemimpin yang sukses, yakni bisa memberi kepercayaan diri pada anggotanya, pemimpin harus alias wajib dan kudu convidence, itu mudah tapi yang lebih sulit yakni bagaimana pemimpin yang convidence itu bisa membuat orang yang dipimpinnya jd convidence juga hingga bisa memaksimalkan potensi yang dipimpin jadi UNSTOPABLE. ato istilahnya menstimulasi lah, gtu.
Nah, kalo cuma hanya bisa bicara, ngomong sana ngomong sini tapi nggak ngapa-ngapain, sok yang paling hebat tapi padahal nggak ada apa-apanya dan nggak punya prestasi yang bagus, selalu mengeluh, putus asa yang karna putus asanya itu jadi nyalahin yang dipimpinnya, lha.. gmana bisa menyemangati yang dipimpin, siapa yang mau percaya klo si pemimpinnya gtu? lagian siapa coba yang mau dipimpin, kucing aja ogah! (Hehe..itu kata Echa si ahli masalah per-kucing-an) sepertinya itu semua ada di Blog-nya Zamhasari Jamill, keren2 zam!, top deh! tapi klo saya pake referensi Rosulullah Muhammad di milis ini, pasti moderator kita yang mengidap "amnesia" protes lg ntar hehehe....
selamat baca deh sobat PPI!
Ten Golden Rules to become a successful Person
This goes to say that if you are a successful man, there will be hundreds of people to wish you and bless you and on the contrary, if you are a failure, you will be left alone like an orphan.
The key to success is to develop leadership qualities. Some are born leaders and many develop leadership. Born leaders are the people who have a strong family background in a particular field of activity, which gives them an image by birth itself. Unfortunately all are not blessed with this quality.
But certainly leadership can be developed by all individuals by sheer aptitude for it followed by hard work. Some of the qualities that are mentioned below might give footage for developing a better personality.
Stand in the front:
You must have seen a train, where in the engine will be in the front and it pulls all the carriages along with it. Just as the engine, you must always stand in the forefront and pull the whole organization along with you. Not only that, you should be as strong as the engine in all respects - physically, mentally and also financially.
Effective Public Speaking
This is the biggest weapon in your armory. You can sway the whole crowd in your favour. We have seen in history, people who have the gift of the gab have changed the minds of millions of people.
Don�t expect success in your maiden speech itself and don�t get disheartened too, if you are a failure in your first speech. Remember, you cannot win a Cricket match with the very first ball you bowl. Have you ever heard a commentator saying �Here comes Shoib Akhtar and bowls the first ball and Pakistan wins�, You have to bowl umpteen numbers of balls and each ball should be a better ball than the previous one and it is only then you can achieve success. Similarly you have to give umpteen numbers of speeches and each speech should be a better speech than the previous one and it is only then success will be yours.
Body Language
Avoid bad mannerisms and gestures like holding the mike, putting hands in the pocket, meddling with your button, looking at the ceiling or avoiding to see the audience etc. Always look into the eyes of the audience, this will prevent cross talking. Go well dressed to the meetings. This does not mean that you should always wear your suit. Remember that you are not fully dressed, until you wear a smile on your face. It certainly doesn�t cost much, but gets you a big dividend.
Communication Skills
There are two kinds of communications - Oral and Written communication. Oral communication is the one wherein you speak and the other person listens.
In written communication, you write and the other person reads. Written communication is more authenticated, whereas Oral communication is more effective and gives better personal touch but gets distorted while passing from mouth to mouth. When you want work to be done, personally talk to the people who are involved in it. This will yield better results.
Shed Inferiority Complex
Many times many people get scared to lead a society which has got tall personalities as its members. Of course everybody wants everything big. Big Car, big bungalow, big bank balance etc. But only one thing they want it very small. Guess what? Yes, you got it right; it is the mobile phone. Remember it is the small Mobile Phone that reaches your destination much faster than your biggest Car. The smallest people can do biggest wonders than what the bigger people can do.
Team Building
Like a cricket captain, who places his players at particular fielding points, depending upon their skills, capabilities and aptitude, you too have to select your team and give them positions of their liking and interest. Co-ordinate between the groups and make them move like a homogeneous group. But never entertain groupism.
To gain the confidence of the group, you should posses certain qualities:-
1) Show consideration, courtesy and politeness
2) Choose your words carefully
3) Think win/win situation
4) Smile and be kind
If you have an apple and I have an apple and we exchange apples then you and I will still each have one apple. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange these ideas, then each of us will have two ideas.
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