dear all, jika anda ingin membaca kupasan tentang kasih sayang yang menurut saya bagus, silakan membaca buku lama yang ditulis oleh pemikir besar ERICH FROMM, berjudul THE ART OF LOVING. saya mengnal buku ini ketika arief budiman pada taon 1970 kasih diskusi di pantai parangtritis, waktu rendra mengadakan kemah kaum urakan. di dalam menyintai ada tiga unsur, kalok gak salah (lantaran udeh sekitar hampir 30-an taon yang lalu saya baca): care, responsibility & respect. salam hangat: halim hd.
--- Ichjar Musa <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Wah berat amat "love" versi Carla nih. Pada hal, > cukuplah tutup mata, buka > mulut sedikit, rebahkan kepala ke dada, then " I > love you " deh ! > He....he...... > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Carla Annamarie" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: <[email protected]> > Sent: Friday, February 18, 2005 10:15 AM > Subject: [ppiindia] I love you.. > > > > > > > > I LOVE YOU" > > "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is > evil; cling to what is good" > > The sentence "I love you" is common among people, > especially people of > > opposite sex, either married or single. The > sentence is so common that > > most > > people have lost or misinterpreted the real > meaning of the most important > > word in it - love. To some, "I love you," means I > want to get something > > from you. To others, love is the glorified word > for lust. The intention of > > "I love you" of others is to gratify their selfish > desire. No wonder, love > > has become one of the most common words in any > language. > > What does love means to you? How are you > demonstrating it? Do you really > > mean it when you tell somebody, "I love you"? > "Love is patient, love is > > kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is > not proud. It is not > > rude, > > it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, > it keeps no record of > > wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices > with the truth. It > > always protects, always trusts, always hopes, > always perseveres. Love > > never > > fails" . So it means that when I say "I love you," > what I am saying in > > essence is that: I will be patient with you; I > will be kind with you; I > > will not envy you; I will not elevate myself > higher than you; I will not > > be > > self-centered; I will not be easily provoked by > you; I will keep no record > > of any wrong you do to me; I will not have hidden > agenda against you; I > > will be truthful to you; I will protect you; I > will trust you; I will have > > hope in you; I will persevere with you; and my > love is not temporary. > > Anything short of these is hypocrisy. > > > > I love you. Do I? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > *************************************************************************** > > Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat > Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia > > yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. > www.ppi-india.uni.cc > > > *************************************************************************** > > > __________________________________________________________________________ > > Mohon Perhatian: > > > > 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA > (kecuali sbg otokritik) > > 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg > akan dikomentari. > > 3. Lihat arsip sebelumnya, www.ppi-india.da.ru; > > 4. Satu email perhari: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > 5. No-email/web only: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > 6. kembali menerima email: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > Yahoo! Groups Links > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Yahoo! Mail - now with 250MB free storage. Learn more. http://info.mail.yahoo.com/mail_250 ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Take a look at donorschoose.org, an excellent charitable web site for anyone who cares about public education! http://us.click.yahoo.com/O.5XsA/8WnJAA/E2hLAA/BRUplB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> *************************************************************************** Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. www.ppi-india.uni.cc *************************************************************************** __________________________________________________________________________ Mohon Perhatian: 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA (kecuali sbg otokritik) 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg akan dikomentari. 3. Lihat arsip sebelumnya, www.ppi-india.da.ru; 4. Satu email perhari: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 5. No-email/web only: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 6. kembali menerima email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppiindia/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
