Perceraian berbeda dengan perkosaan! Kalau dicampuraduk berarti tidak bisa persoalan diselesaikan mulai dari akar, hanya berputar-putar seperti gasing. Kalau cerai lebih mudah apa lagi dari soal agama misalnya agama Islam, cukup talak-talakan selesai masalahnya. Tetapi kalau perceraian berdasaran aturan aliran Katholik agak sulit sebab harus mendapat persetujuan dari Paus. Alasannya mungkin karena katanya adalah wahyu Tuhan dalam injil yang berbunyi : "Yang telah dijodohkan oleh Tuhan janganlah diceraikan oleh manusia". Di aliran Kristen Protestan, hanya putusan pengadilan sipil - perceraian selesai.
Masalah perkosaan misalnya perkosaan terhadap TKW Indonesia di negeri-negeri Islam seperti Arab Saudia, Kuwait dsb. tak pernah selesai dengan pemerkosa dihukum, karena wanita korban perkosaan yang dalam hal ini TKW tidak bisa mempunyai 4 orang saksi. Begitulah ceritanya, tetapi mungkin kalau putri sultan atau orang berada diperkosa tidak diperlukan 4 saksi, langsung pemerkosa dihukum tanpa banyak cingcong ----- Original Message ----- From: "Ari Condro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Friday, April 14, 2006 11:52 AM Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Meski Dijual Rp50 Ribu/Eksemplar, Playboy Laris Manis di Medan > kalo gitu amerika pake program minimal 4 saksi aja oom, biar angka > perceraiannya rendah. ikut standar islam gitu lho, supaya keamanan wanita > bisa terjamin. > > ada yang salah ? > > On 4/14/06, Ambon <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> >> Masalah banyaknya perkosaan tergantung bagaimana catatan statistik >> dibuat, >> apakah teratur atau tidak dan apakah perkosaan dilaporkan atau tidak? Di >> banyak negeri bagi wanita melaporkan perkosaan bisa menjadi tragedi >> tambah >> tragedi, karena masyarakat bukan membela korban perkosaan tetapi bisa >> menganggap korban sebagai sampah atau olok-olokan. Ada lagi masalah hukum >> berdasarkan agama yaitu korban harus mempunyai 4 saksi, kalau tidak >> mempunyai 4 saksi sekalipun terjadi perkosaan tidak dianggap berarti >> tidak >> ada catatan terjadinya perkosaan. >> >> Dengan menunjukan angka yang jujur bisa memberi gambaran yang buruk bagi >> negeri.. >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "Ari Condro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: <[email protected]> >> Sent: Friday, April 14, 2006 11:14 AM >> Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Meski Dijual Rp50 Ribu/Eksemplar, Playboy >> Laris >> Manis di Medan >> >> >> > tingkat perkosaan di indonesia sedikit lebih banyak dibandingkan >> > azerbaijan, >> > yaman, maupun saudi, di saudi rupanya perkosaan jarang terjadi. >> > heibat >> > sekali :D >> > >> > dan tentunya angka ini jadi fantastis jika dibandingkan dengan tingkat >> > perolehan negara negara eropa, jepang, maupun amerika. >> > >> > >> > On 4/14/06, Ari Condro <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> >> >> >> mosok toh mas ? >> >> >> >> Rapes (per capita)Rank >> >> Country< >> http://www.nationmaster.com/red/graph-T/cri_rap_percap&ob=ws&b_desc=1> >> >> Amount < >> http://www.nationmaster.com/red/graph-T/cri_rap_percap&b_desc=1> >> >> (top to bottom) #1 *South Africa* 1.19538 per 1,000 people >> >> #2 *Seychelles* 0.788294 per 1,000 people >> >> #3 *Australia* 0.777999 per 1,000 people >> >> #4 *Montserrat* 0.749384 per 1,000 people >> >> #5 *Canada* 0.733089 per 1,000 people >> >> #6 *Jamaica* 0.476608 per 1,000 people >> >> #7 *Zimbabwe* 0.457775 per 1,000 people >> >> #8 *Dominica* 0.34768 per 1,000 people >> >> #9 *United States* 0.301318 per 1,000 people >> >> #10 *Iceland* 0.246009 per 1,000 people >> >> #11 *Papua New Guinea* 0.233544 per 1,000 people >> >> #12 *New Zealand* 0.213383 per 1,000 people >> >> #13 *United Kingdom* 0.142172 per 1,000 people >> >> #14 *Spain* 0.140403 per 1,000 people >> >> #15 *France* 0.139442 per 1,000 people >> >> #16 *Korea, South* 0.12621 per 1,000 people >> >> #17 *Mexico* 0.122981 per 1,000 people >> >> #18 *Norway* 0.120836 per 1,000 people >> >> #19 *Costa Rica* 0.118277 per 1,000 people >> >> #20 *Venezuela* 0.115507 per 1,000 people >> >> #21 *Finland* 0.110856 per 1,000 people >> >> #22 *Netherlands* 0.100445 per 1,000 people >> >> #23 *Denmark* 0.0914948 per 1,000 people >> >> #24 *Germany* 0.0909731 per 1,000 people >> >> #25 *Bulgaria* 0.0795973 per 1,000 people >> >> #26 *Chile* 0.0782179 per 1,000 people >> >> #27 *Thailand* 0.0626305 per 1,000 people >> >> #28 *Kyrgyzstan* 0.0623785 per 1,000 people >> >> #29 *Poland* 0.062218 per 1,000 people >> >> #30 *Sri Lanka* 0.0599053 per 1,000 people >> >> #31 *Hungary* 0.0588588 per 1,000 people >> >> #32 *Estonia* 0.0547637 per 1,000 people >> >> #33 *Ireland* 0.0542829 per 1,000 people >> >> #34 *Switzerland* 0.0539458 per 1,000 people >> >> #35 *Belarus* 0.0514563 per 1,000 people >> >> #36 *Uruguay* 0.0512295 per 1,000 people >> >> #37 *Lithuania* 0.0508757 per 1,000 people >> >> #38 *Malaysia* 0.0505156 per 1,000 people >> >> #39 *Romania* 0.0497089 per 1,000 people >> >> #40 *Czech Republic* 0.0488234 per 1,000 people >> >> #41 *Russia* 0.0486543 per 1,000 people >> >> #42 *Latvia* 0.0454148 per 1,000 people >> >> #43 *Moldova* 0.0448934 per 1,000 people >> >> #44 *Colombia* 0.0433254 per 1,000 people >> >> #45 *Slovenia* 0.0427648 per 1,000 people >> >> #46 *Italy* 0.0402045 per 1,000 people >> >> #47 *Portugal* 0.0364376 per 1,000 people >> >> #48 *Tunisia* 0.0331514 per 1,000 people >> >> #49 *Zambia* 0.0266383 per 1,000 people >> >> #50 *Ukraine* 0.0244909 per 1,000 people >> >> #51 *Slovakia* 0.0237525 per 1,000 people >> >> #52 *Mauritius* 0.0219334 per 1,000 people >> >> #53 *Turkey* 0.0180876 per 1,000 people >> >> #54 *Japan* 0.017737 per 1,000 people >> >> #55 *Hong Kong* 0.0150746 per 1,000 people >> >> #56 *India* 0.0143187 per 1,000 people >> >> #57 *Qatar* 0.0139042 per 1,000 people >> >> #58 *Macedonia, The Former Yugoslav Republic of* 0.0132029 per >> >> 1,000 >> >> people >> >> #59 *Greece* 0.0106862 per 1,000 people >> >> #60 *Georgia* 0.0100492 per 1,000 people >> >> #61 *Armenia* 0.00938652 per 1,000 people >> >> #62 *Indonesia* 0.00567003 per 1,000 people >> >> #63 *Yemen* 0.0038597 per 1,000 people >> >> #64 *Azerbaijan* 0.00379171 per 1,000 people >> >> #65 *Saudi Arabia* 0.00329321 per 1,000 people >> >> >> >> *Weighted average:* 0.1 per 1,000 people >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> On 4/14/06, RM Danardono HADINOTO <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > wrote: >> >> > >> >> > >> >> > Angka perkosaan di Indonesia tetap lebih tinggi daripada di negara >> >> > negara teratu dan maju. 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