Bob

I don't think that OT has become what it is because of who we *all* are,
after all it only takes a few rotten apples doesn't it.  I think just a
few simple rules of etiquette would suffice to raise the bar:

- Never assume your own POV is either correct or the only one (which
includes you Bob)
- Always read and try to understand and give consideration to the other
person's POV 
- Do not deliberately antagonise or troll other people who have
different POVs (and that includes sarcasm)
- Saying something many times does not make it any more right

Remember, in the final analysis, we are all here because presumably we
enjoy discussion.  So let's keep doing just that.  

Regards

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-----Original Message-----
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Bob Calco
Sent: 04 July 2006 15:17
To: 'ProFox Email List'
Subject: [OT] RE: ProFox List Statistics for June, 2006

Chet:

I give Bill credit for attempting rational discourse, however, I've not
seen ANYTHING but vitriolic left-wing rhetorical hit pieces from you.
Not that there's anything wrong with that per se, your bromides are
after all hugely entertaining to read, but that you of all people should
be speaking in praise of 'rational discourse' is amusing.

Nevertheless Pete's point about Bill's voluminous posting is partially
on-point. It not like he says anything new in his epistles, it's
always:

* The planet is doomed without the UN taking control of everything (to
the contrary the oil-for-food scandal shows how badly we really need the
UN)
* We must convict and hang every neo-con within a 500 mile radius of DC
(no need for a trial, since all the evidence has been posted by
commondreams.org and the Huffington post)
* We need to give Israel back to the Palestinians and send the Jews back
where they came from (presumably New York), if they obstinately refuse
to embrace their arab brethren in full democratic spirit just because
they blow up pizzarias filled with women and children, kidnap and
torture Israelis, and threaten annihilation of all Jews.
* We need push-button teledemocracy via the internet; only that can
bring integrity to our electoral process
* We need to explore space because, well, Captain Kirk said it's the
'final frontier'
* I believe in God but I think atheists are really smart people who are
on to something
* Karl Jung rocks and really isnt read often or well enough
* I categorically oppose seat belt laws but I believe in regulatory
newsgroup post limitations and style guides (seat belts for posters, as
it were)

But Pete doesn't do Bill full justice. At least Bill experiments with
ways to rephrase and reformulate these points, and persuade people who
disagree with his perspective of their wisdom, mostly without
rancor---that's what's to his credit. (I half expect him now to go
point-by-point through my list of gross oversimplifications to point out
that each one is a gross oversimplification. ;-) )

My points are similarly few and doubtless easily caricatured as well,
and I often fail to match Bill's earnestness, but I have made a
conscious effort lately to post only once in a while, because no matter
how hard I try rational discourse (usually about the war in
Iraq) or throwing out a new idea (like my contrary views on trade and
taxes), the only person who ever stands up to the challenge consistently
is Bill (with Jim Eddins chiming in occasionally with his outstanding
wit, and Dominic Burford pointing out when I get rhetorically too near
his pain tolerance level). ;) 

I think part of the problem with you lefties not liking OT anymore is
you're not really into rational discourse, for the most part. Mike says
ANYTHING in his usually iconoclastic Chris-Rock-meets-Jack-the-Ripper
style and that becomes some kind of excuse to drop out of discussion of
any kind in indignant exasperation, or make pious statements about how
much better educated and more tolerant you are. Kristyne is notable
exception, she manages to make those points consistently without
dropping out in exasperation most of the time. :)

I also posit that Ed's tone-setting example is one of the reasons for
the dirth of engaging discussion on OT lately. His unforgiving,
get-thee-behind-me-you-worthless-moron attitude typifies OT "tolerance"
better than any of Mike's semi-automatic keyboard bursts.
Only tolerate people who not only write like Bertrand Russell or
Aristotle, yea, but also think like them. Everyone one else's opinion
and mode of expression is worthless 'drivel' and can and should be
safely ignored. Well now, how much 'rational discourse' can you expect
in such an environment? 

People consciously or sub-consciously live up to the expectations you
set for them (for good or ill). They also resist any conscious attempt
you make to set expectations for them. ...An aspect of the human dilemma
that I have learned by raising children. (And having been a child once
myself, once upon a time...)

OT has become what it has become because of who we all are, and we all
need to look in the mirror if we find it lacking, not just a handful of
posters with a knack for one-or-two-line zingers (which includes you,
Chet).

Every time I hear the "Oh, woe is OT!" lament I can't help but wonder
how it would be different if that energy was actually used to raise the
level of discussion, rather than just bemoan or condemn it and blame one
or two people for scaring away the so-called, self-proclaimed smart
folk. 

- Bob

! -----Original Message-----
! From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
! [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Chet Gardiner ! Sent:
Tuesday, July 04, 2006 2:13 AM ! To: [email protected] ! Subject: Re:
ProFox List Statistics for June, 2006 ! 
! Ah, "on and on"...you mean attempting rational discourse rather than

! regurgitating bogus right-wing talking points.
! 
! This continues the drift [OT] begun by others...  :-) ! 
! 
! 
! petetheisen wrote:
! 
! > Bill Arnold wrote:
! >
! >>>>> Total [OT] Posts: 1983
! >>>>> (Up 135.51% relative to May, 2006) ! >>>> ! >>>>
! >>>>        [shudder!]
! >>>>
! >>>
! >>> That is remarkable. So glad I don't get to see OT. Just the ! >>>
statistics amaze me. And I thought I posted too much!
! >>
! >>
! >> I trust folks like you and Ed do see the irony here: ProFox was !
>> established because freedom of speech was under assault. 
! The irony is
! >> that we then became victim to a groupie or two who took ! the
opportunity ! >> to flood the list with nonsense, which drove away the
very ! people, such ! >> as yourself, whose opinions we thought we were
clearing ! the way for.
! >>
! >> When someone posts almost 600 times in one month, that's ! not an
exercise ! >> in free speech, that's an attack.
! >
! >
! > Hi Bill!
! >
! > The volume of your posts is approximately equal to the 600 ! posts
from ! > the other guy. He gets to the point, you go on and on and ! on
and . . .
! >
! > Regards,
! >
! > Pete
! >
! >
! >
! >
! 
! 
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