> The locals said they did take the case to the authorities. When the police 
> arrived Sahar's mother-in-law tried to fight them off, screaming all the 
> while that her son had "bought" the girl who therefore had to do what she was 
> told.

Pernyataan mertua dr cewek yg disiksa habis2an ini nunjukin gimana si cewek itu 
dianggap sbg budak krn sdh dibeli oleh keluarga penyiksanya. Pembelian ini dlm 
bentuk mahar.

Nurut Islam, dgn ngasih mahar, maka si cewek itu jadi hak yg ngasih mahar, tiap 
cm badannya adalah milik yg ngasih mahar. Ga ada bedanya dgn beli budak, bukan?

Dan si cewek itu hrs nurut ke yg beli si cewek, kalo ga, maka si cewek wajib 
digebukin, kata auloh.

Jadi, penyiksaan thd ABG 15 thn ini sesuai dgn Islam, termasuk jg 
pedophilianya, krn Islam jg bilang halal ngembat anak ingusan yg blm mens. Asal 
bayar aja, spy si anak ingusan itu halal.
 

Tortured Afghan child bride had been sent back to in-laws
Jon Boone in Kabul
January 3, 2012 - 1:23PM
Read more: 
http://www.smh.com.au/world/tortured-afghan-child-bride-had-been-sent-back-to-inlaws-20120103-1pitj.html#ixzz1iQyZkG4l
 
A 15-year-old Afghan girl who was nearly tortured to death by her husband and 
his family attempted to escape from her attackers more than four months ago but 
was sent back home by local authorities, it has emerged.

Sahar Gul, a child bride married off to a soldier called Gulam Sakhi who then 
tried to force her into prostitution, is being treated for horrific injuries in 
a hospital in Kabul after she was rescued last week.

During her ordeal several of her fingernails were ripped out with pliers and 
one of her ears was badly burned by an iron. Her husband is now on the run, and 
her mother-in-law and sister-in-law have been arrested.

Her case has caused uproar in Afghanistan and Hamid Karzai, the country's 
President, has vowed that those responsible would be punished.

But disturbing new details about how the local community and authorities 
responded to her abuse has highlighted the ambivalence many Afghans have over 
how far women should be able to exercise the most basic of legal rights.

"She ran away to her neighbour's house and told them that her husband was 
trying to make her become a prostitute," said local community leader Ziaulhaq. 
" 'If you are a Muslim, you must tell the government what is happening to me,' 
she told them."

The locals said they did take the case to the authorities. When the police 
arrived Sahar's mother-in-law tried to fight them off, screaming all the while 
that her son had "bought" the girl who therefore had to do what she was told.

She appeared to be alluding to the dowry paid by Sakhi's family, a sum thought 
to be about $4000.

Locals say the family simply promised to stop hurting her. Ziaulhaq also 
alleged that bribes were paid to government officials to hush up the affair.

Although she emphatically denied money was paid, Rahima Zarifi, the women's 
affairs chief in Baghlan province, said she could not remember the details of 
the case, or why Sahar was sent back home.

The abuse resumed and continued for months until a male relative visited. When 
he found the girl, who had been starved in a locked basement for weeks, Sahar 
was almost unable to speak.

Fauzia Kufi, an MP who campaigns on women's issues, said that even then local 
authorities attempted to resolve the abuse through "traditional means".

"Basically they wanted the relative to sit down with his sister's abusers and 
work out an agreement," she said.

Kufi also claims there was strong pressure not to publicise the case.

"Many people don't take these sorts of crimes seriously and don't think it 
should be reported," she said.

"Even the local authorities have blamed the department for women's affairs for 
not trying to solve it locally between families in the traditional way."

Horrific abuse of women is still common in Afghanistan, particularly against 
brides who can be regarded as chattels by their husbands or are exchanged 
between families in order to resolve feuds.

The government is frequently unwilling to enforce laws it has often been forced 
to pass by the country's international backers, and the writ of the state often 
does not run in areas far away from urban centres.

However, the case of Sahar was not in the remote countryside but in Puli 
Khumri, an important, mid-sized town which has one of the country's few 
factories.

Kufi also claimed that local sources told her that Sakhi, despite having a 
warrant out for his arrest, returned briefly to his home on Sunday night and 
that locals did not inform the police.

The claim is strongly denied by community leaders who say they were appalled by 
the crimes of the family and had never attempted a low-key, traditional 
mediation between the parties.

Abdullah Fahim, a senior adviser to the minister of public health, said the 
case was part of the "bitter reality" of Afghanistan.

"We have several cases like this, especially in remote parts of the country 
where there is not a strong attitude to women's rights," he said. He added that 
the ministry had dedicated a team of psychiatrists to the girl.

"Her physical wounds are getting better day by day, but we are very concerned 
about her mental condition because she has been tortured for a long period of 
time."

The law on the elimination of violence against women was passed more than two 
years ago and criminalised many abuses for the first time, including domestic 
violence and child marriage.

But a recent UN report found only a small percentage of reported crimes against 
women were pursued by the Afghan government.

Between March 2010 and March 2011, prosecutors opened 594 investigations 
involving crimes under the law - just 26 per cent of the incidents registered 
by the Afghan human rights commission.

Guardian News & Media

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