auloh ngelarang janda nabi kawin lagi (nabi itu cemburuan, biarpun udah mampus jg msh ga rela bininya dijadikan bini orang lain).
Tp auloh itu ternyata maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang, shg si Aisha dll msh tetap bisa menikmati kehangatan laki2 dgn netekin cowok yg lalu bisa dimasukkan ke dlm kamar krn udah jadi muhrimnya. Betul2 Islam itu agama yg brilyan. 10:20 pm | Posted by FFI Editor Mama Ayesha did suckle older men too 7/31/2012 Source: the book “The Abridge Commentary of Ibn Kathir” written by Al-Saboni: Here is the Hadith in Arabic with the nursing part bolded وقد روي في الصحيحين عن عائشة رضي اللّه عنها أنها كانت ترى رضاع الكبير يؤثر في التحريم، وهو قول عطاء والليث بن سعد، وكانت عائشة تأمر بمن تختار أن يدخل عليها من الرجال لبعض نسائها فترضعه، وتحتج في ذلك بحديث (سالم مولى أبي حذيفة) حيث أمر النبي صلى اللّه عليه وسلم امرأة أبي حذيفة أن ترضعه وكان كبيراً، فكان يدخل عليها بتلك الرضاعة، وأبى ذلك سائر أزواج النبي صلى اللّه عليه وسلم ورأين ذلك من الخصائص، وهو قول الجمهور، وحجة الجمهور ما ثبت في الصحيحين عن عائشة أن رسول اللّه صلى اللّه عليه وسلم قال: “انظرن من إخوانُكنَّ! فإنما الرضاعة من المجاعة”. (مختصر تفسير ابن كثير. الإصدار 1.26 – اختصار الصابوني). Below is the literal translation of the above Hadith It was narrated by both Sahih (of Bukhari and Muslim) regarding Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, that she used to view adult nursing as affecting prohibition (of marriage). This was also the saying of Ata and Al-Laith Ibn Sa’d.Aisha used to nurse the men that she chose to enter into her company and she used the excuse for this the hadith of Salim the adopted son of Abu Hudhaifa. The Prophet – pbuh – ordered the wife of Abu Hudhaifa to nurse Salim, who was old (at the time), so Salim would enter to her because of that nursing. The other wives of the Prophet – pbuh – refused (to do likewise) and saw that this was a special command (to Sahla), which is the opinion of the majority. The justification the majority used is what is found in both Sahih (of Bukhari and Muslim) narrated by Aisha that the Prophet – pbuh – said, ‘See who are your brothers. For nursing is for hunger.’ [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: [email protected] [email protected] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [email protected] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
