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--- In [email protected], Musik hari Ini <musikhariini@...> wrote: > > Hoyim tolol ini rupanya perempuan yang otaknya sudah kagak beres > di Islam itu jangan kan merkosa lihat crlana dalam perempuan saja Dosa > elu rupanya perempuan liar....bicara elu sangat menjijikan. > ( Teddy pasti mikir gua lg > muji2 Islam) > > ________________________________ > From: itemabu2 <itemabu2@...> > To: proletar <[email protected]> > Sent: Monday, February 18, 2013 8:32 PM > Subject: [proletar] Lebanese women take on Muslim judges who call rape a > 'marital right' > > > Â > Hehehe.... merkosa (bini) itu adalah hak orang Islam. > > Betul2 Islam itu agama yg benar, hehehe.... ( Teddy pasti mikir gua lg > muji2 Islam) > > http://edition.cnn.com/2013/02/17/world/meast/lebanon-womens-rights-law/ > > Lebanese women take on Muslim judges who call rape a 'marital right' > By Arwa Damon and Tim Hume, CNN > February 18, 2013 -- Updated 0235 GMT (1035 HKT) > > Beirut, Lebanon (CNN) -- Lebanese women are taking to the streets to > demand that the government takes domestic violence seriously, by > introducing laws to protect women from abusive partners. > > Nadine Mouwad, a founder of feminist collective Nasawiya, says the > prevalence of unveiled, glamorous women in Beirut can create the > impression that Lebanon is more liberated from patriarchal cultural > attitudes than neighboring countries. > > But that's merely an illusion, she says. > > "The problem is that we are sold a lot of fake freedoms that raise > Lebanese women under the impression that they have freedom to go > anywhere, freedom to dress the way they want to," she said. > > For the past year and a half, Mouwad and fellow feminist activists > have been demanding that politicians ignore the objections of Muslim > religious authorities and pass a stalled law protecting women from > domestic violence. > > A draft version of the Law to Protect Women from Family Violence was > approved by Lebanon's Cabinet in 2010, but has since become bogged > down in parliament, mainly due to the objections of Sunni and Shia > authorities. > > The initial version of the bill was drafted to criminalize physical > and sexual abuse, so-called "honor crimes" and marital rape, create > specially-trained domestic violence response units within the police, > and provide the legal framework for restraining orders to be issued > against abusers. > > Read also: Not all colors welcomed in Lebanon's cultural tapestry > > But Lebanon's religious courts -- the judicial authorities presiding > over each of the country's faith communities, with jurisdiction over > matters of "personal status," including marriage problems -- have > criticized the proposed law as an attempt to erode their authority. > > Dar al-Fatwa, Lebanon's top Sunni authority, and the Higher Shi'a > Islamic Council both said that they opposed the draft on the basis > that Sharia law protected the status of women, and should remain the > basis for governing legal issues related to Muslim families. > > Domestic violence cases in Lebanon are typically heard in the > religious courts, which often respond with rulings focused on > preserving the family unit, rather protecting women from violence. > > It's a response that abused women are usually met with from police as > well, says Lebanese lawyer Amer Badreddine. > > "They are told to solve the problem amicably, to keep it a family > issue and not cause embarrassment to themselves by bringing it to the > police," said Badreddine, who specializes in domestic violence cases. > > He said the law also failed to recognize marital rape as a crime -- a > position that some Muslim judges argue should be upheld. > > Criminalizing marital rape "could lead to the imprisonment of the > man," Sheik Ahmad Al-Kurdi, a judge in the Sunni religious court, told > CNN, "where in reality he is exercising the least of his marital > rights." > > Read also: A Palestinian farmer's journey to the Oscars > > With little protection from authorities, Lebanese women in abusive > marriages must also often contend with the disapproval of their > families if they seek to escape their predicament. > > One Lebanese mother-of-three told CNN of being beaten by her husband > from the time she was pregnant with their first child. Shortly after > the child was born, he broke her nose and she resolved to divorce him. > But her parents were mortified about what people would think, and said > she would have to give up her son if she left. > > She returned to the marital home where the abuse continued, including > her husband forcing himself on her. "He used to make me pregnant, > thinking that as long as I was having kids he would make me stay," she > said. > > She feared he would kill her. But eventually, with the help of a Kafa > ("Enough") -- an NGO tackling violence and exploitation of women and > children -- she was able to divorce her husband and retain custody of > her children. > > Such an outcome is rare for abused women in Lebanon -- a situation > that was now unlikely to be remedied by the passing of the domestic > violence bill, says Mouwad. Her organization heard of about 15 cases a > year of Lebanese women murdered by their domestic partners, she said. > > Mouwad said the draft bill had been watered down with so many > amendments due to objections by religious conservatives, that it was > virtually useless. She said she would ultimately prefer not to see it > pass. > > "If it passes the way it is, it's going to be disastrous and > counterproductive," she said. > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! 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