Semua orang di sini pasti senang kalau lu jadi nikah sama bleki. Juga ikut senang kalau anak-anak kalian kelak pada jadi penganten homo.
Berselera nggak lu nikah sama bleki? --- "Bukan Pedanda" <bukan.pedanda@...> wrote: > Aneh memang bahwa orang Islam disini bukannnya merasa senang orang > lain yang tidak menganggu mereka bisa hidup menurutkan selera > mereka. > > > --- "Nub" <nubtheologian@> wrote: > > > Kalo orang batak bilang: > > Strong rejection may be interpreted as affirmation > > > > --- Bukan Pedanda <bukan.pedanda@> wrote: > > > > > Permanent Address: > > > http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=homophobes-might-be-hidden-homosexuals > > > > > > Homophobes Might Be Hidden Homosexuals > > > A new analysis of implicit bias and explicit sexual > > > orientation statements may help to explain the underpinnings of > > > anti-gay bullying and hate crimes > > > By Jeanna Bryner and LiveScience | Tuesday, April 10, 2012 | > > > 40 Image: Wikimedia Commons/thaths > > > Advertisement > > > Homophobes should consider a little self-reflection, suggests a > > > new study finding those individuals who are most hostile toward > > > gays and hold strong anti-gay views may themselves have > > > same-sex desires, albeit undercover ones. > > > The prejudice of homophobia may also stem from authoritarian > > > parents, particularly those with homophobic views as well, the > > > researchers added. > > > "This study shows that if you are feeling that kind of visceral > > > reaction to an out-group, ask yourself, 'Why?'" co-author > > > Richard Ryan, a professor of psychology at the University of > > > Rochester, said in a statement. "Those intense emotions should > > > serve as a call to self-reflection." > > > The research, published in the April 2012 issue of the Journal > > > of Personality and Social Psychology, reveals the nuances of > > > prejudices like homophobia, which can ultimately have dire > > > consequences. [The 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors] > > > "Sometimes people are threatened by gays and lesbians because > > > they are fearing their own impulses, in a sense they 'doth > > > protest too much,'" > > > Ryan told LiveScience. "In addition, it appears that sometimes > > > those who would oppress others have been oppressed themselves, > > > and we can have some compassion for them too, they may be > > > unaccepting of others because they cannot be accepting of > > > themselves." > > > Ryan cautioned, however, that this link is only one source of > > > anti-gay sentiments. > > > Hidden homosexuality > > > In four studies, the researchers looked at the discrepancies > > > between what people say about their sexual orientation and > > > their implicit sexual orientation based on a reaction-time > > > test. The studies involved college students from Germany and > > > the United States. > > > For the implicit measure, students had to categorize words and > > > pictures flashed onto a computer screen into "gay" or > > > "straight" groups. Words > > > included "gay," "straight," "homosexual" and "heterosexual," while the > > > pictures showed straight and gay couples. Before each trial, > > > participants were primed with the word "me" or "others" flashed > > > momentarily onto a computer screen. The researchers said quicker > > > reaction time for "me" and "gay," and a slower association of "me" with > > > "straight" would indicate said an implicit gay orientation. [Why Gay > > > Parents May Be the Best Parents] > > > In another experiment, the researchers measured implicit sexual > > > orientation by having participants choose to browse same-sex or > > > opposite-sex photos on a computer screen. > > > Questionnaires also teased out the parenting style the participants were > > > exposed to, with students asked how much they agreed or disagreed with > > > statements such as: "I felt controlled and pressured in certain ways;" > > > and "I felt free to be who I am." To gauge homophobia in a household, > > > students responded to items such as, "It would be upsetting for my mom > > > to find out she was alone with a lesbian" or "My dad avoids gay men > > > whenever possible." > > > Participants indicated their own level of homophobia, both overt and > > > implicit; in word-completion tasks, students wrote down the first three > > > words that came to mind when prompted with some of the words' letters. > > > Students were primed at some point with the word "gay" to see how that > > > impacted the amount of aggressive words used. > > > Controlling parents > > > In all of the studies, participants who reported supportive and > > > accepting parents were more in touch with their implicit sexual > > > orientation, meaning it tended to jibe with their outward sexual > > > orientation. Students who indicated they came from authoritarian homes > > > showed the biggest discrepancy between the two measures of sexual > > > orientation. > > > "In a predominately heterosexual society, 'know thyself' can be a > > > challenge for many gay individuals," lead author Netta Weinstein, a > > > lecturer at the University of Essex in the United Kingdom,said in a > > > statement. "But in controlling and homophobic homes, embracing a > > > minority sexual orientation can be terrifying." [5 Ways to Foster > > > Self-Compassion in Your Child] > > > Those participants who reported their heterosexuality despite having > > > hidden same-sex desires were also the most likely to show hostility > > > toward gay individuals, including self-reported anti-gay attitudes, > > > endorsement of anti-gay policies and discrimination such as supporting > > > harsher punishments for homosexuals. > > > The research may help to explain the underpinnings of anti-gay bullying > > > and hate crimes, the researchers note. People in denial about their own > > > sexual > > > orientation, perhaps a denial fostered by authoritarian and homophobic > > > parents, may feel a threat from other gay and lesbian individuals. > > > Lashing out may ultimately be an indicator of the person's own internal > > > conflict with sexual orientation. > > > This inner conflict can be seen in some high-profile cases in which > > > anti-gay public figures are caught engaging in same-sex acts, the > > > researchers say. For instance, evangelical preacher and > > > anti-gay-marriage advocate Ted Haggard was caught in a gay sex scandal > > > in 2006. And in 2010, prominent anti-gay activist and co-founder of > > > conservative Family Research Council George Rekers was reportedly > > > spotted in 2010 with a male escort rented from Rentboy.com. According to > > > news reports, the escort confirmed Rekers is gay. > > > "We laugh at or make fun of such blatant hypocrisy, but in a real way, > > > these people may often themselves be victims of repression and > > > experience exaggerated feelings of threat," Ryan said. "Homophobia is > > > not a laughing matter. It can sometimes have tragic consequences," as > > > was the case in the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay man. > > > * 5 Myths About Gay People Debunked > > > * Understanding the 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors > > > * 10 Scientific Tips For Raising Happy Kids > > > Copyright 2012 LiveScience, a TechMediaNetwork company. All rights > > > reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or > > > redistributed. > > > > > > YES! Send me a free issue of Scientific American with no > > > obligation to continue the subscription. 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