Mungkin jg pemerintah Maroko mau ngebela tkwnya, sementara pemerintah Indonesia ikut nganiaya tkwnya sendiri.
>________________________________ >From: Sunny <[email protected]> >To: [email protected] >Sent: Saturday, September 17, 2011 4:36 PM >Subject: [proletar] Moroccan maids may ‘spell’ trouble, warn some women > > > >Refl : Selain PRT Maroko bisa bikin “fufu” atau “black magic” kepada majikan; >juga kalau mereka dimaki-maki dalam bahasa Arab, bisa mereka tangkis dengan >kata-kata yang sama. Lagi pula mungkin PRT Maroko menghendaki gaji yang lebih >besar dibandingkan dengan PRT Indonesia. >http://arabnews.com/saudiarabia/article501818.ece >Moroccan maids may ‘spell’ trouble, warn some women >By WALAA HAWARI | ARAB NEWS > >Published: Sep 14, 2011 23:04 Updated: Sep 14, 2011 23:04 > >RIYADH: Saudi women have voiced reservations against recruiting domestic >helpers from Morocco as suggested by the chairman of the Saudi recruitment >committee. > >This is due to an old belief that Moroccan women use black magic to lure men >to marry them. Some Saudi women urged the Shoura Council to intervene, while >others threatened to quit their jobs to look after their homes if housemaids >from the country were brought in. > >Najla, a 32-year-old teacher at a private school, said she felt threatened by >the news, pointing out that Moroccan women are known for being pliant and >willing to adjust to varying situations, and this posed a threat to a working >wife who is not at home most of the day. > >Raja is a housewife who hopes the move falls through. She said Moroccan women >are known for their black magic and could use it in Saudi homes. “It is better >to be safe than sorry,” Raja said. > >“It all depends on the upbringing of the man,” said Nuha, a physician and >mother of three young children. She expressed support for the initiative to >bring in Moroccan workers and pointed out that any threat can come from >workers of any nationality and not only one. > >Sawsan, a 40-year-old housewife, sees no harm in the initiative as she >believes Saudi women should have confidence in themselves. “If a woman knows >how to keep her husband satisfied, nothing can threaten her home.” > >Sameer, a divorced businessman, believes that “black magic” is the key phrase >frightening people. “However, other nationalities, as we have experienced in >the Kingdom, use black magic to control families.” > >“I am against having a live-in domestic helper in general,” said Majed, a >single lawyer, adding that having a stranger live in anyone’s home is not >healthy and can cause many problems, especially in marriages. “It is like >bringing in an alien seed and planting it in your garden. No one can predict >the outcome.” > >Umm Fahad, a 27-year-old mother of three, has worked with a Moroccan maid for >seven years, and she thought it was the best experience. > >“She was so clean, quiet and kind, and since she left I have been suffering >with workers of other nationalities,” she said, adding that at least the maid >spoke the same language and understood Saudi traditions. > >On the other hand, PR manager Abdullah saw no harm in recruiting from Morocco >provided that a minimum age for workers is set and that watchdogs control visa >allocations closely to prevent any foul play. > >Moneera, a single journalist, saw no point to the fuss surrounding this issue. >“Many families have recruited Moroccan domestic workers for many years now and >there might have been minor complaints about them, like any other nationality.” > >“It is a ridiculous fear that is without base,” said marriage counselor and >psychoanalyst Hany Al-Ghamdi, pointing out that if a man has no respect for >his family, nothing will stop him from having an affair and that any concerns >about nationality are invalid. It is a misconception, Al-Ghamdi points out, to >stereotype in this way based on nationality. > >“If there is to be a reasonable analysis, we should ask why Moroccan women >know how to attract and keep their men,” said Al-Ghamdi, suggesting that Saudi >women who feel threatened should take a closer look at themselves. > >“There is no black magic in a relationship between a man and woman. But there >is the magic of love, caring and tolerance,” said Al-Ghamdi, adding that some >women do not know how to understand their men and show tolerance toward them. > >Tolerance, according to Al-Ghamdi, means being able to overcome problems and >disputes and show love and femininity. > >Moroccan women, in his opinion, are feminine by default. “They feel and >express their femininity and surrender to their husbands, which is in their >nature, while other women might look at it as degrading,” said Al-Ghamdi, >adding that marriages involving Moroccan women in the Kingdom are not a trend >that could threaten Saudi women. > >Teaching love, Al-Ghamdi believes, is one way to reduce Saudi women’s fear of >being threatened by other women. > >“Aisha, the wife of Prophet (peace be upon him), was the first to open a >‘school for women.’ She was teaching women about even the most intimate >details of their lives with their husbands. > >We need more of this teaching, instead of the rigid curriculum we are teaching >girls in schools,” said Al-Ghamdi, stressing that even Prophet Muhammad (peace >be upon him) said “there is no alternative for love but to marry.” > >In his opinion this is a clear sign that there is love before marriage or at >least strong admiration and desire, on which homes should be built to dispel >any such threats > >[Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! 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