http://arabnews.com/opinion/columns/article503776.ece
By ABDULATEEF AL-MULHIM 
A Muslim in a church and a Jew in a mosque
ABDULATEEF AL-MULHIM
Sep 19, 2011 20:09 
When I attended schools in the US and later on as a liaison officer for the 
Saudi Navy in Pensacola, I have seen worship houses next to each others.

Mosques, churches, synagogues and other temples. And when your religion is one 
of these faiths, then you will go to one. And you may not see the other. Yes, 
you will read about the other faiths, but most of the time you will concentrate 
on the differences rather than the similarities. And yes, there are 
differences. But, I have seen very important things in common. And it is the 
encouragement of all faiths to respect the human soul. And in all religions, 
killing of innocent human being is at the top of sins. And all faiths encourage 
kindness to each other.

The funny thing is that most followers of different faiths talk to each other 
with love and trust. But, the very small number of radicals makes all the noise 
and mistrust. When I was in Pensacola Naval Air Station our Saudi Navy office 
held two parties every year for the Eid. They were Eid Al-Fitr (Ramadan) and 
Eid Al-Adha (Haj). Parties were held for all Saudi Navy aviation trainees and 
their families. We held most of the parties at different places that were 
public, such as parks or lake sides rather than hotels. The reason for that is 
Eid Al-Fitr is not known until Saudi authorities announce the sighting of the 
new moon to confirm the end of Ramadan. And that is less than one day’s notice.

So, at one time we celebrated the happy Eid in a park in Milton, Florida. And 
we invited some non-Muslims who worked with us at the Naval Air Station and 
they gladly accepted. And on one Eid, we were not able to find a public park 
that was available. And out of the blue we got an offer from a very large 
beautiful church to celebrate the Eid in the church. And the priest told us we 
can stay all day and all night celebrating the Eid. One of the Saudi aviators 
wanted to check if it was OK from a religious point of view and he called the 
highest religious authority in Saudi Arabia. And the answer came back. And it 
said, Omar Bin Al-Khatab, the second caliph in the Islamic history prayed in a 
church. So, it is OK to celebrate the Eid in a church. After the party, the 
priest refused to take any money as a rent fee. But, I insisted on giving him 
at least something to cover the electricity usage. We celebrated all night. And 
until this day, I don't remember if he took the money or not. That was in 
mid-1990s.

After Sept.11, 2001, I thought it would be hard to do the same thing. I am 
happy that I was wrong. About two years ago I heard about a small Virginian 
town (Reston) had some Muslims in their community who were observing the holy 
month of Ramadan and during the night, the place of prayer was not large enough 
for the worshipers. And the solution came from the Jewish community who offered 
their place of worship to the Muslim community. This beautiful gesture will 
last forever in the hearts of the Muslims and Jews in this small town.

Now, if you think this is a nice story, then it gets better. About three months 
ago, I wrote an article in the Arab News about the conflict in the Middle East. 
I received hundreds of e-mails from all over the world. One of the most 
touching was from an Israeli rabbi. He told me that one day he saw some Jewish 
kids writing graffiti on a mosque's walls. And as far as I know, this happens 
even in Muslim countries. Kids will always be kids. But, this Israeli rabbi 
went with some of his friends to the imam of the mosque and told him they will 
clean and repaint the walls of the mosque. And, yes, they did. And the rabbi 
bought copies of the Holy Qur’an and gave them to the mosque as a gift. This 
simple gesture built bridges of trust among the Palestinian and Israeli kids.

Why don't we read about these stories in the press? Why does the press write 
about the clash of civilizations rather than what these civilizations had 
accomplished? Why the mistrust between civilizations during an era of mass 
communications? How can we misunderstand each other during the Internet era? It 
costs a lot less to build bridges of trust. We sent massages to outer space to 
see if there is life in the faraway galaxies. And we still kill each other just 
for having the wrong name. I mean, can't we all get along?


— Abdulateef Al-Mulhim is based in Alkhobar, Saudi Arabia. He can be reached 
at: almulhimnavy@hotmail


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