+1 to your observation. And FWIW, I hesitated for 30 minutes literally before 
sending this message, deciding to say very little lest I get pulled into some 
philosophical debate myself :)

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On Apr 12, 2011, at 12:10 PM, Hugh Glaser <[email protected]> wrote:

> A recent thread included discussion of how to reply to postings. 
> 
> For what it's worth, I don't agree that the best way to reply to a posting 
> about doing something in one system is to say:
> "Well this is how I do it in my system."
> 
> At its best, it is hard to understand what the respondent means, because it 
> entails (at least for the original poster who is looking for feedback on 
> their system) working out what the respondent's system view is implicitly, 
> using terms that the respondent finds comfortable, but are often alien to the 
> poster.
> At its worst, the original message is completely lost, as the thread simply 
> moves to a discussion of the respondent's system.
> 
> It is far better if respondents try to communicate with the poster by 
> addressing the post directly, using the poster's terms wherever they can.
> And it should certainly be acceptable to give the poster feedback, including 
> comments that may seem negative as well as positive, without having another 
> implementation or solution in your pocket.
> 
> I, as well as others I know, find the culture that has developed on this list 
> of responses saying "Well this is how I do it" alienating, and thus sometimes 
> a barrier to posting and genuine responses, and so actually stifles 
> discussion.
> 
> Happy to be told I am wrong, or in a tiny minority, without hearing any 
> proposals for better solutions. :-)
> 
> Hugh


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