Long delay timeout whith xinetd

[Kornyakov Yevgeny]

Hi !
I use xinetd for invoking qmail
next configuration:

service smtp
{                                                                                      
                         
flags       = NODELY REUSE NAMEINARGS                                                  
                         
socket_type = stream                                                                   
                         
protocol    = tcp                                                                      
                         
wait        = no                                                                       
                         
user        = qmaild                                                                   
                         
id          = smtp                                                                     
                         
server      = /var/qmail/bin/tcp-env                                                   
                         
server_args = -R /var/qmail/bin/qmail-smtpd                                            
                         
log_on_success -= DURATION USERID PID HOST EXIT                                        
                         
log_on_failure -= USERID HOST ATTEMPT RECORD                                           
                         
}

but I have delay about 10 sec when I try to use smtp
How I can remove this delay ????
P S:  iF i remove -R option delay become 1 or 1.5 minutes
  and next question how I can set relay rules