lower concurrency on _certain_ domains?

[Alan Clegg]

I run mailinglists.org and have come to find out that they way that AOL is
determining that I am a "spammer" (I'm not), is the number of concurrent
connections into AOL.

Is there any way to lower the concurrency rate on a single domain (AOL.com)
while leaving everyone else intact?

AlanC
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