Re: [QUAD-L] To older brother's & sister's

[TonyPony1]

In a message dated 10/19/2004 1:45:35 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

Hi Bobbie,
I'm the oldest of 5, the big brother who was the family mechanic,
carpenter, roofer, electrician, etc.
I was the most independent, the free spirit, who moved around the
country doing my own thing. For ex I joined a traveling carnival 2
weeks after grad from high school and knew I would be going into the
service in the fall.
Since my accident, the control freak of the family (the sis 2 1/2 years
younger), often sneaks behind my back trying to make choices for me. I
have the middle sis alerting me when she tries doing this. It has lead
to heated arguenments where I've had to assert myself reminding
everyone that I'm still mentaly an adult and no-one has the right to
make any decisions concerning my life w/o consulting me FIRST. She
messed up certain things I won't get into, but it did ruin an option I
was keeping open for myself. The family has for the most part accepted
that I will never change being strong willed. I will do whatever it
takes to remain as independent as possible, even though I've had to
accept the fact that I'm no longer self sufficient.
Stuntman

....i have two sisters that couldn't care less about my accident/situation,...neither one can hold a job, both receive SSi for mental probs....one is married with a kid that she does very little in the way of bringing up right.  Both sisters are on Clonopin (spelling?)....one is severely depressed, and has drank motor oil, the other is bi-polar hypochondriac that has tried to poison people, and is impossible to live around without calling the cops every week...i constantly have to give her money, as she ends up homeless every now n then.

thank god for siblings....lol

tony