What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at 30.
I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive person. I
used to get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk about how you
have had girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women like men
in chairs because they feel less threatened. Men are
superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get
off. I go out on occasion. Before I got sick I used to get hit on
all the time and get drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't
had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got sick. Socializing
and talking to new people is not a problem and I am a very approachable
person. I have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out. We
never sit at a table. We are always at the bar or in the general
area. Never have our backs to people. I know the chances of
meeting my soul mate in a bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even look
twice.
It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party at a
rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and I were up there
dancing and some woman came up and started dancing with me, holding my hands
and treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling my friend who is
also a girl how pretty I was. It was so funny. I was cracking
up. Trying to pull my hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty
strange.
Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09
PM
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Billy,
Sexual frustration is the big problem
for me too. First of all be being a women with a disability is really hard
to get a man to just to see you as being sexual. Even men with a
disability want a non-disability women. Like Steve if you gave the slution
PLEASE let me know.
Billy...
Do I suffer sexual
frustration? Only daily, many times...
If you find the
solution, share it with the group!
Steve
This is a serious question, not to insinuate that other questions are
not, but I recall one individual who was so preoccupied with sex that I
felt compelled to leave the site for a short amount of time just to get
away from him. Anyway, does anyone else on here suffer from bouts of
extreme sexual frustration? I frequently attribute this frustration to a
lack of female companionship, but it is often very difficult to
concentrate on other things when I become fixated on this particular
subject. Any suggestions?
Billy
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