Stacy
Had you thought that the girl at the party could’ve been interested in you.:) I know that a good friend of mine that is female a quad is GAY. I’ll also have 2 say that the argument or things you’re stating about being female and in a chair is the same things us guys in chairs say. We feel that women in chairs have an easier time getting or being in relationships than us. I’ve been in a few relationships since being in a chair but feel that maybe the reason they didn’t last was because I’m still adjusting and not comfortable with myself and not sure of their real reason 4 being with me. What do I have 2 offer in a relationship ... What her real reason 4 being with me? Is it just out of sympathy? Is it because I’m the perfect man once I’m in bed I’m there till the morning. She don’t have 2 worry about me cheating because no 1 else wants my crippled azz. :)
I know more women in chairs in relationships than guys in chairs. So can we be frustrated also????? Not speaking 4 myself I’m not in a relationship right now because of my own personal DEMONS. ;)
On 12/22/04 3:05 AM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive person. I used to get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk about how you have had girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because they feel less threatened. Men are superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they can't get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got sick I used to get hit on all the time and get drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got sick. Socializing and talking to new people is not a problem and I am a very approachable person. I have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out. We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar or in the general area. Never have our backs to people. I know the chances of meeting my soul mate in a bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even look twice.
It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party at a rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and I were up there dancing and some woman came up and started dancing with me, holding my hands and treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was. It was so funny. I was cracking up. Trying to pull my hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty strange.
Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
From: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Billy,
Sexual frustration is the big problem for me too. First of all be being a women with a disability is really hard to get a man to just to see you as being sexual. Even men with a disability want a non-disability women. Like Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know.
Wheelchair Warrior
Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Billy...
Do I suffer sexual frustration? Only daily, many times...
If you find the solution, share it with the group!
Steve
-----Original Message-----
From: B. Kimberlin [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM
To: Quad
Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration
This is a serious question, not to insinuate that other questions are not, but I recall one individual who was so preoccupied with sex that I felt compelled to leave the site for a short amount of time just to get away from him. Anyway, does anyone else on here suffer from bouts of extreme sexual frustration? I frequently attribute this frustration to a lack of female companionship, but it is often very difficult to concentrate on other things when I become fixated on this particular subject. Any suggestions?
Billy
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