I'm still horny and enjoying sex even though I'm not coming but than again I am:) I see it in my urine bag the next day. I don't need any more kids and I now know that me coming which was my climax isn't what making love was about ... It is what sex was about ... Nahhhh I'd have 2 say give me bladder and especially bowel control ... There's nothing like being on a bus going downtown and having a major blowup. Stinking the whole bus up :) well that's aight:) I enjoy seeing the faces on the people tryin 2 figure out where the smells coming from. I look around also like I'm tryin 2 figure it out. :) the downside having 2 wait an hr 2 catch the bus back from downtown, having 2 call the agency 2 find someone 2 come clean me up. So now I'm sitting in this mess stinking 2 high heavens for several hrs or more & I've gone thru 2 flap surgeries so the mental stress is the worse part of it. Every time I breath I'm thinking that this is going 2 open an area that will tunnel & put me on bed rest again. I can't stand staying in bed I get up even when I'm not feeling well :)
On 12/27/04 4:37 PM, "Brian Stocker" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I have a woman for 20 years, I am 42, but I no > longer enjoy sex. I can take viagra, she can sit > on me and stuff, but because I am unable to come, > the whole thing is not very special. I have > always been VERY, auto erotic and have had sex > with myself 90% of the time, always ending with a > big BANG. In the absence of this and the complete > disconnect, of not ever feeling horny, it's not > very pleasurable. > > I would rather have full sexual function than > bowel/bladder control, > > What do you guys think? > > Liz wrote: >> My man is extremely satisfied. >> >> a quad woman >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]> >> Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:57 PM >> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> It is true that quad men are know for their abilities in the >> bedroom. They are said to know how to really please a woman. Never >> heard it the other way around before. >> >> Stacy >> >> ----- Original MessIage ----- >> From: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]> >> Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:52 PM >> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> Thanks Stacy, You have shared your feeling about us women. I >> know that the men on the quid list is not superficial, but they >> do not thank about the quad women. How we feel! I just want to >> be held and love by a man I love. But, every time I think me >> soul mate is found he disappeared. How do us girl get good >> feeling about ourselfs? What do you guys want from us? We don't >> have the thumb. Wheelchair Warrior Andrea >> >> Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> >> I'm sorry. I know that. I should have said most. I know >> also that you guys here on the list aren't. I apologize for >> saying it because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T >> superficial. >> >> can you find in your heart to forgive me?Embarrassed smiley >> emoticon, >> Stacy >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: Martin T. Brown <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; >> Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; andrea >> murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]> >> Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:52 AM >> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> [quote] Men are superficial. They just think we can't >> have sex, therefore they can't get off. [/quote] >> >> Stacy don't swing this term above imposing that all men >> are superficial, we are not. >> >> QuadMedic >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; >> andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]> >> Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 10:05 AM >> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the >> prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but >> I think that I am an attractive person. I used to >> get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk >> about how you have had girlfriends, partners, >> wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because >> they feel less threatened. Men are superficial. >> They just think we can't have sex, therefore they >> can't get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got >> sick I used to get hit on all the time and get >> drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't >> had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got >> sick. Socializing and talking to new people is not >> a problem and I am a very approachable person. I >> have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out. >> We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar >> or in the general area. Never have our backs to >> people. I know the chances of meeting my soul mate >> in a ! bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even >> look twice. >> >> It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party >> at a rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and >> I were up there dancing and some woman came up and >> started dancing with me, holding my hands and >> treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling >> my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was. It >> was so funny. I was cracking up. Trying to pull my >> hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty strange. >> >> Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you, >> Stacy >> >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: andrea murray >> <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> Cc: [email protected] >> <mailto:[email protected]> >> Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM >> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> Billy, >> Sexual frustration is the big problem for me >> too. First of all be being a women with a >> disability is really hard to get a man to just >> to see you as being sexual. Even men with a >> disability want a non-disability women. Like >> Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know. >> Wheelchair Warrior >> >> Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED] >> <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> wrote: >> >> Billy... >> >> Do I suffer sexual frustration? Only daily, >> many times... >> >> If you find the solution, share it with the >> group! >> >> Steve >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: B. Kimberlin >> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >> Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM >> To: Quad >> Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration >> >> This is a serious question, not to >> insinuate that other questions are not, >> but I recall one individual who was so >> preoccupied with sex that I felt >> compelled to leave the site for a short >> amount of time just to get away from >> him. Anyway, does anyone else on here >> suffer from bouts of extreme sexual >> frustration? I frequently attribute this >> frustration to a lack of female >> companionship, but it is often very >> difficult to concentrate on other things >> when I become fixated on this particular >> subject. Any suggestions? >> >> Billy >> >> >> ------------------------------------------------------------------------ >> Do you Yahoo!? >> Yahoo! Mail - Easier than ever with >> enhanced search. 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