Ahhh Eric, I give my heart to you and yours.  And truly, no need to feel guilty..He was in your heart and that is what matters..all that matters.
  Someone I know also passed on Christmas day..and I have never seen a nicer letter/email from her husband regarding it..I'm sending it here..to  maybe, in hope..give your family a bit of Peace...if not now...somewhere in the future.
  Here is what he wrote..
"She was in a coma for the past three days and her peaceful release into
the hands of the Lord was a wonder to behold.  She was surrounded by family
and friends as she transferred into the mansion prepared for her by Our
Lord.  Praise Him for that promise.  That was what sustained her through
all the trials she had endured.  May that promise become real to all of you
when your Christmas Day comes
God bless,"
 
 
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Tuesday, December 28, 2004 8:48 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Sad news

Dear Eric,

You and your family have my heartfelt sympathy in this difficult time. I agree with Stacy, don't fault yourself for being human. Do something for his wife and kids today, tomorrow and forever. Perhaps we could all do something today, in celebration of your cousin's life and sacrifice.
Here's a comprehensive list of many efforts around the country:
http://www.optruth.org/main.cfm?actionId=globalShowStaticContent&screenKey=SoldierCharities&lnav=2

Peace and love,

River

On Dec 27, 2004, at 4:33 PM, Stacy Harim wrote:

You got it Eric.  Please don't be so hard on yourself.  You are human and we as humans have the "won't happen to me attitude."  You aren't the blame and now that he is gone, he is with you always.  I am sure he understands that you love him and never wanted or wished any harm on him.  I'll pray for his family and also for you Eric.
 
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
From: Eric Olson
To: quad
Sent: Monday, December 27, 2004 4:09 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Sad news

Gang,

With all the troops in Iraq, you never think your one relative over
there is going to be one of the ones not coming home.  My cousin, Todd
Olson was killed in Iraq.  He wasn't even there two months.  I found out
yesterday.  He could have been killed on Christmas and I just found out
yesterday.  Regardless, Christmas will never again be a happy occasion
for his wife and four kids.  I feel so guilty.  I never even wrote him. 
I never prayed.  I just didn't think he would be one to get killed. 
Please don't let my cousin's death be the renewal to some bullshit
political debate.  Just pray for his family.

Eric

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